The woman's grandson's blind date chat record is on fire! How will you deal with a wonderful blind date?

If I meet a great man on a blind date, I will deal with it in the following ways.

First, refuse directly.

Generally, blind date people are introduced by relatives, and they will feel bad to refuse. It is wrong to be ungrateful to the kindness of relatives. Since I think the people introduced by my relatives are great, that is to say, I don't like them at all, and I still don't like them very much. If you don't talk about relatives and this object, you will find it very attractive, or at least not very annoying.

Next, relatives will find many opportunities to do good things promoted by the matchmaker. Here I think all actions must be well-intentioned. Then I guess the next refusal will be more difficult, so it is most appropriate to explain it directly for the first time. Then explain it directly, and many people will think that direct explanation means no matter. Anyway, whatever the tone, I just said it directly, so I don't quite understand my original intention.

When I say direct explanation, I mean that the explanation is inappropriate, but we should pay attention to the ways and means. For example, when explaining the strange man directly, it must be two people alone. When relatives introduce you, they will definitely arrange a place to chat alone, because they want to know more about it. Two people chatted for a long time, and found him wonderful, so they explained it directly. Gentle tone, slow down and smile, but the language content is direct.

For example, the two of us have met and talked for such a long time. I think it is different in personality or cognition. Such an excellent person, I think I will find a better girl than me. I think even an idiot knows he doesn't like him. Next, you need to explain to your relatives when and what to say, first of all, thank you. Secondly, I don't think two people are suitable. Don't hit your relative, she means well.

Second, politely refuse.

Euphemistic refusal, mainly euphemistic, requires a person with high emotional intelligence, which is actually nothing. As long as you study hard, you can do it soon. Two people talked alone for a long time. I thought he was great and didn't like him.

Then at this time, try not to comment on the topic he is talking about, that is, try not to say anything. When he talks to himself for a while, he will probably feel it. If he is smart and sensitive, he knows he doesn't like him, but when he can feel it, he will know. Finally, I still have to explain it euphemistically. How can I put it? You can say some of his advantages for sure first. These advantages were mentioned by relatives before he was introduced, and then I said that I was so excellent that I didn't deserve it.

Anyone with a little online IQ knows that this is a euphemism for refusal. For example, a friend of mine has a high emotional intelligence. When he turned down a female colleague, he said a lot of good things about her first. I said that my female colleague was in a good mood, and then I thought it would be better for us to be friends. If I am a boyfriend and girlfriend, I will be blindfolded because I am too close. Later, the two did not become enemies because of the rejection of their colleagues. On the contrary, the friendship continues.

Third, don't talk.

I must have left contact information for each other. No matter what the contact information is, I will send him a message when I get home, saying that we are not suitable, and then I will not contact him.

I am a straightforward person, and this is how I deal with strangers on blind dates.