They used to be good friends, but because of some things, the relationship is getting weaker and weaker. I want to write her a letter. How should I write it? I am a boy, and we are pure friendship. ..

They used to be good friends, but because of some things, the relationship is getting weaker and weaker. I want to write her a letter. How should I write it? I am a boy, and we are pure friendship. ... a letter

Friend:

Hello! There are many pains and thoughts in my heart. I hope you can listen to my heart.

In the eyes of others, I am always so considerate, and I have been doing things that make others happy. I have many friends. They all think I am happy. Actually, I'm not happy. ...

Everyone needs love. I have been doing things that make others happy, expecting others to discover my beauty and care, but I am only disappointed. I finally found that the person who cares about me the most is myself. I always thought that if only others were happy, I would be happy. But I found that I was wrong! Feuerbach said, "Your first responsibility is to make yourself happy." I understand now that only when I am happy can I make others happy.

I thought that as long as I do it perfectly, then others will be happy and I will be happy. A good mood will make people around you happy. On the contrary, being in a bad mood will also affect the mood of people around you. Now I find that what if I do it perfectly? I have been doing things I don't like, and I have a poker face every day. Of course, others will not have much communication with me. And my bad mood will only make everyone depressed.

When I am sad, I always hope to get the concern of my friends. But only then did I realize that I had no friends. I can only smile bitterly. Others can't be responsible for my health and happiness, nor can they really help me integrate into the environment. Where others have never been, I will only close my heart more and more. I'm sad, but I never thought about leaving some worries for myself.

I have asked some people, and they are all able to pass on their happiness to others. They say there are many ways to take care of yourself.

Because I will pass on my happiness! Take care of yourself!

I feel much better. Thank you for listening to me!

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