Men talk about divorce over and over again, and then get together.

Men talk about divorce over and over again, and then get together.

Men talk about divorce over and over again, and then never leave. Love is run by two people. If you have any questions, you need to communicate in time. In fact, we prefer that the other half can sit down and explain clearly to themselves and solve the problem. Let's look at the behavior of men who talk about divorce repeatedly and then never leave.

The man repeatedly said that he was divorced, and then he was with 1: he was still alive.

The relationship between husband and wife is not hopeless. After communication, there is still a chance to make up. In this case, he is dragging his feet and trying to improve the relationship between you. Please give him some time and give yourself some time. Don't get divorced yet. After all, divorce has a great influence on both parties and children.

Two: save face.

If one party drags on getting married without divorce, it is either that he is reluctant to part with it, or that he has not found a new home and has no courage to divorce. Otherwise, he will become a bachelor, and it will be humiliating to say it, not to mention that he is divorced and no woman wants himself. Therefore, once there is a woman outside, men will divorce you without hesitation.

No woman does not divorce to save face. The so-called face is that he is divorced, and the child has to call another man's father, so he can not respond!

Three: Divorce, you will lose some money.

With the implementation of the marriage law, a large part of the property between husband and wife will be divided after divorce, but now most of the family financial power is in the hands of men. If divorced, it means that men will lose half of their property control. If they have children, they have to pay him alimony every month, so this is a big expense.

Four: I want a divorce, but I feel that I can't find someone like her.

In the world of male chauvinism, if you are an uncle outside, women should give him enough face, even at home. He does nothing. He doesn't care about anything at home except his clothes. He thinks I work hard to earn money to support my family and work hard outside every day. Why should I be considerate and help you when I come back?

Are you tired sitting at home every day? As a result, you are more and more disgusted with your wife's annoyance and don't want to see her every day. When I came back, I accused her of this and that, and I didn't treat her as a wife at all.

And you, the more you use it, the more you get used to it You want to divorce her. You think facing her every day is not only boring, but also an eyesore. You want a divorce, but if you just say that you are a wife, she can, because although you are tired of watching her, you can eat at home on time every day, and so on. She is qualified. I want a divorce, but I don't think I can find anyone like her.

Five: one set outside and one set behind.

What is a successful man? He not only has money, children, but also a stable and happy marriage. When you have money, you can have a junior three or a junior four outside. As long as the people and women you are looking for don't threaten your family and let your family make others look happy, what about playing with women outside? After all, even if I don't love you and don't divorce you, you will be satisfied.

After all, dragging a man who is not divorced and raising a woman outside is actually a state of happiness for everyone. You can raise a woman smartly outside, and a woman at home takes care of me every day, washing my hands and making soup for me. Isn't that rich?

Six: Just do it, just do it.

I want a divorce, but I don't think I'm young anymore. If I want to marry another one, I'm under great pressure. Besides, the children are old, and I don't want to mess around I just want to spend the rest of my life.

Divorce is a terrible word. Once you give up, there is nothing. Although there are also men and women who have successfully married, they are a minority after all. Divorce means a fresh start. Everything comes from the future partner's adaptation to himself and his children. Good is happiness, and bad estimates will harm yourself and your children.

The man repeatedly said that he was divorced, and then he never left 2. First, when men and little green children are in love.

When they were in love, he and Xiao Lv looked at each other perfectly. It's easy to act impulsively or have some crazy ideas at this time.

At this time, if a man proposes to end his marriage, the reason is not that his relationship with his wife has broken down, but that he is now in a state of being addicted to fantasy and unable to extricate himself.

Second: Little Green puts pressure on men.

Some little greens will constantly put pressure on men to get ahead, such as "If you don't marry me, I will report you to your company" and "I am pregnant with your child, so you must marry me" ...

Faced with these pressures, he couldn't think of a solution at the moment, so he agreed to divorce first, just to appease Xiao Lv.

Third: A man thinks that Little Green is the one he really wants.

When he gets along with Xiao Lv, Xiao Lv can give him more comprehensive attachment and trust, but when he is with his wife, he has never felt this way. Therefore, under the influence of this emotional value, a man will believe that Xiao Lv is his true love and spontaneously want to divorce and marry Xiao Lv.

Fourth: In order to deter his wife, men file for divorce.

Wives will angrily let her husband break up when they find out that he is out of line, but the man doesn't want to end the affair so soon. Moreover, he knew that his wife was reluctant to leave this family, so he asked for a divorce, in order to intimidate her and prevent her from interfering in her extramarital affairs.

In fact, a man really doesn't want to leave, because if he really wants to leave, he will never give his wife many conditions, saying that I won't leave as long as you promise me, and I will divorce you if you don't promise me. Fifth: When his wife went to war with Xiao Lv, he made an account for Xiao Lv.

Because a man knows that his wife is afraid of divorce, he wants to stabilize Xiao Lv so that he can achieve his goal of "threesome". In fact, these actions are for his own protection.

Sixth: He saved face.

Some men are very proud. He knew that after his betrayal, his wife would not make him feel better, and he would bring it up again and again, so he preemptively said, "I have broken up, but I don't want to live with you." I have experienced too much pain in my marriage. " Then his wife will beg him not to leave, and then he will be complacent. "You are reluctant to leave me, not that I want to stay." This also achieved his goal.

To sum up these six stages and six situations, in fact, women should know that most men are venting their emotions or just a means, so you must not be intimidated by him.

The man repeatedly said that he was divorced and then stayed with him. First, the motive force of his divorce is "external force". In other words, if the third son puts pressure on him and the third son supports one, he will move, but if the third son fails, he will not move. Does he have the motivation to divorce himself? No, that's why he forced you to leave, but to cope with the pressure of the third son.

Second, his motive for divorce is "internal force", which comes from you. You asked him for an answer. He was cornered by you, so he used divorce to shut you up. If you shut up, he will stop talking about divorce. It's just a way to manipulate you.

Third, his motivation for divorce is "contradictory". He is very entangled in his heart. On the one hand, he wants a divorce, on the other hand, he can't bear it, just like a seesaw. He wants to leave you for a while, but he doesn't want to leave you for a while. He is in a swing period.

That is, you should use actions to test what men really think, and don't have so much inner drama.

First, carrot tactics: If this man says he wants to leave you, but in fact he is very close to you in behavior, and even inadvertently reveals his plan to buy a house with you in the future, it means that what he said before is actually just nonsense.

So if you find that your relationship is actually good on the whole, try to be caring and attentive to him. If his answer is yes, then we can be more sure that he doesn't want to leave at all. So what is "be caring and attentive"? Then you have to use the "affirmative speech" in the "husband and wife call" technology.

Second, stick tactics: If this man really has a problem with your feelings, although he never gives up, but his attitude towards you is very distant, then you should try to push it further and see if he is fooling around.

For example, you tell him that if he doesn't talk about divorce with you, you may have to go to court to sue.

Because I don't want you to be in such a vague state all the time, I hope you two can discuss it well and decide how to get along in the future.

Many times, men will be scared when they hear the word "court prosecution". He will see your determination. If you prepare the indictment and throw it in front of him, he will be dumbfounded.

So you have to understand that at this critical moment, you must not fall into the rhythm of men, and let this man's way of muddling along become the solution to your marriage problems.

But at this time, you must remember that you must grasp the temperature. Many couples are prone to quarrel at this time. Like walking a tightrope, how to hold down the fire and give the other person a step, and at the same time have a certain degree of challenge, these speech skills and strategies are all in my "Couple Dialogue Technology".