Send text messages to people who like to use exclamation points.

Once, I sent a reminder to the class, because the school arranged group gymnastics, and I reminded the children to wear school uniforms and red scarves in advance. After editing the content, I remember that there are always several "fish that slip through the net" in the class every time there is a large-scale activity. Finally, I added "Remember!" With an exclamation point.

Parents and friends also echoed and said that they had received it. At this moment, one of my favorite students suddenly said, "Teacher, why do all your short messages end with exclamation marks?" Not playing cards according to the routine, this question is incompatible with all harmonious notes, and I was blinded at once.

I was silent for a long time before I answered four words: habit

Although there is no story about this, this pebble has stirred up layers of waves in my heart lake and can't be calm for a long time. Why do students care so much about a small punctuation mark?

In fact, it is not difficult to understand after deep thinking. The implication of the child is nothing more than that every time the teacher emphasizes, it is a distrust of us, and I am unwilling to accept every time the teacher uses an exclamation point.

Exclamation mark is a very common punctuation mark in Chinese. It is like a tear after direct current, like a beautiful meteor passing by, and like a string of swaying earlobes, with a stretched shape and elegant appearance.

Its function is nothing more than strengthening the tone and giving it a strong subjective color. But it is also divided into "praise" and "criticism". When you like and praise, your emotions gush out, and you use an exclamation point to sublimate your emotions; When you want to remind, exhort, shock and warn, an exclamation point will add fuel to the fire. The former makes people happy, while the latter makes people uncomfortable.

Whether it's the red exclamation mark on the computer or the exclamation mark of the "danger" sign on the road, people feel a little scared and gasping.

As we like to see:

Never like to hear:

Obviously, once the exclamation point is used for warning, warning and prosecution, its melodious meaning has changed, and the sense of alienation and gunpowder quietly pervades, giving people the feeling of being inaccessible, domineering and difficult to say.

In life, we often have experience.

Some people especially like to use exclamation marks when sending text messages, almost one sentence, and sometimes even several exclamation marks. Through the screen, we seem to see that the person texting at the other end of the phone is crazy, with a black face and anger.

I don't need to pay attention to it, but my relationship with myself is very subtle, so sometimes I feel particularly tired when I read such short messages. I always feel that the owners of those exclamation points seem to be very angry and particularly anxious, breaking their calm pace for no reason.

There are even people who are nominally warm reminders, but every sentence is thorny and sighs again and again. What "This is my last reminder!" "Overdue don't wait! At your own risk! " "I have said the important thing three times!" Seeing such a sharp tone, we will feel a heartbeat. It's over. The leader gave us an ultimatum. Will I be criticized by name, will I make her angry if I don't do well, will she give me a hard time when she is angry, and a series of question marks will pop up from the bottom of my heart, making people have to stop what they are doing to complete the current task.

The purpose of reminding has been achieved, but a series of exclamation points really stimulate people's keen nerves, just like wearing a pair of shoes that are hard to buy, but there is always a grain of sand that will hurt their feet and always lack a little fun.

In fact, if the exclamation point is replaced by a period, the message has not changed and the tone has become much softer. As for whether the purpose of reminding can be achieved, I dare not say, but at least it gives people an approachable and leisurely atmosphere.

I like to bring the exclamation point "!" In a peaceful text message or ordinary chat. Dear friends, it is said that such people are:

People who frequently use exclamation marks may never feel inappropriate, thinking that this is due to habits and temperament, but this is actually a manifestation of disregard for other people's feelings, self-centeredness and lack of emotional intelligence.

Exclamation mark, originally a kind of punctuation, is rich in ink and light in weight, and the use of sentences gives it the function of emphasis and warning. Excessive use will make people feel oppressive. Who wants to see so many exclamation marks when chatting and receiving notices, which will make people feel depressed?

I always feel that the exclamation point contains strong emotions and emotions, which I can't afford. Let me pass by your world in such a plain and subtle way.

Life is full of sighs, joys or sorrows. I just want to live in a pool of still water, without shouting, impulsiveness and toughness, and without exposing my thorns to irrelevant people. I just want to be quiet, calm and do what I have to do.

If one day, we can't help sighing again and again, I hope it's the wonder of beautiful things and the worship of the supremacy of human nature, not just complaining and sharp.

I saw a poem with an exclamation point on the internet, which is similar to my mood at this time. I attach.