How to politely refuse to be confessed?

In interpersonal communication, learning to refuse is a compulsory course, especially in male-female communication, we can't control others to have a good impression on us, nor can we force ourselves to accept the confession of people we don't like. Although refusal is inevitable, polite refusal may not bring the relationship between the two sides to a deadlock. So how can I refuse the confession of people I don't like?

1, resolute, outspoken refusal

As the saying goes: "If you keep breaking off diplomatic relations, you will be confused." When the other person expresses his love for you, if you don't like him, you should give him a clear attitude, don't complain and give him a chance. You should refuse directly, never contact him again after refusing, and don't ask him for help to avoid unnecessary trouble.

2. Leave enough dignity for the other party and refuse efficiently.

Many people dare not refuse others' confession, for fear of hurting their self-esteem and the most fragile heart. Especially the sudden confession of friends for many years caught them off guard and didn't know what to do. At this time, when you refuse this kind of friend's confession, you should know how to be tactful, just give him some hints and tell him your favorite type and your imagined future. Tell him to back off. As friends, they will understand your refusal. This also saved each other's face and dignity and minimized the degree of injury.

3. Don't refuse in person

If the other person confesses to you face to face, you are afraid that refusing to face will hurt the other person, and you don't know how to refuse. At present, you can find a reason why you can't wait to reply immediately. You can tell him what you really think through WeChat or SMS, which can not only ease the embarrassment of face-to-face rejection, but also help the other person digest the information slowly.

4. Send a good friend card

Before rejecting him, you can praise him, praise him, leave him enough face, and let him know that you cherish and care about your friendship, so you don't want to cheat him, because you don't want to do him any harm. Now many people know the meaning of good cards. Once you have dealt a good card, he will naturally know that you politely refused him.