After chatting for a few days, I found that I didn't like how to refuse.

After chatting for a few days, I found that I didn't like how to refuse.

After chatting for a few days, I found that I didn't like how to refuse. Everyone should be familiar with blind date. Some people who don't have a goal at the age of marriage must be assigned at home. But if we need to refuse after a blind date, we will share and talk for a few days and find out how to refuse if we don't like it.

After chatting for a few days, I found that I didn't like how to refuse.

1, don't be ambiguous if you don't like it.

Ambiguity is actually a very sensitive thing for girls and boys, especially for a person who likes you actively. Many people think they are friends. It is normal for friends to take care of her (him) a little, but in the other person's view, it may be a signal that you give her (him), and others will mistakenly think that you like each other.

In fact, for those who care too much, in fact, what the love letter er here wants to say is the concept of "border sense". The so-called "sense of boundary" is to know your own discretion, what you can do and what you shouldn't do! Some people with a strong sense of boundaries will easily misunderstand without knowing it, because these are normal things in her or his feelings!

Step 2 give a direct answer

What is a direct response? In the eyes of many people, this way may hurt people more or less, but the love letter er thinks it may be the best way. Express your current relationship with him (her) to the other party, directly reject her (his) like, and show the person you like or your feelings for her. Although sometimes it may hurt people in practice, direct refusal is the most responsible way to the other party, and it does not waste yourself or the other party's youth.

3. Deliberately show your shortcomings

Sometimes the other person takes the initiative to like you, perhaps just letting the other person see some good things about you and think you are a very good person. Just like girls on campus see a boy who plays basketball very well, maybe that's why girls like you, and they have always regarded you as the best in the world since then! But when the girl found out that one day the boy had a particularly bad temper.

When you don't like cleanliness, maybe girls won't take the initiative to like this boy. The same is true of people who actively like us. Exposing your shortcomings is not a good way, but it is also a very good way to refuse!

The right way to refuse people you don't like.

1. Learn to find the reason

When people you don't love always invite you out on dates, you can excuse yourself for various reasons, for example, you don't have time now and just got together with your classmates. In short, you can refuse to date him for various reasons. Over time, he will lose patience and then give up the pursuit of you on his own initiative.

Express clearly in person

When you are sure that the other person is not what you want, you take the initiative to talk to him and make it clear that he is not the ideal person you want. Let the other party give up, remember not to be ambiguous, always indecisive and always out of touch with the other party, which will only hurt both parties.

3. Use your classmates.

If you are always embarrassed to refuse each other face to face, please ask your classmates to help you, let them convey your ideas for you, make it clear to each other, and let them not do unnecessary entanglement.

4. Don't save face

If you have made it clear that you don't like each other, but he is still pestering you, then you can find a suitable occasion and refuse each other on the spot without saving face. At this time, the other person feels that he has lost face, and then he will not continue to pursue you.

5. Be sincere.

When people who don't love you pursue you, you should also face it sincerely. Don't accept the other person's pursuit of you just because you feel empty for a while, and then regret it before breaking up. Doing so will not only hurt others, but also hurt yourself.

6. Don't be half-hearted

When you are sure that you are not interested in each other, don't just play with each other because you think it's fun, have an affair with each other, and finally disagree with each other's pursuit.

After chatting for a few days, I found that I didn't like how to refuse. 2 How to refuse each other if it is not suitable after blind date?

1, know the basic situation before dating.

When the introducer (matchmaker) or parents arrange a blind date for you, it is recommended to ask them for the other party's information in advance and ask them clearly. If the other person is not your type or is not suitable for other reasons, you can refuse directly.

2. Talk about some topics that the other person is not interested in.

If you feel inappropriate after meeting, I suggest you talk about some topics that the other party is not interested in, such as talking about your own professional topics and cosmetics. If the other person tries to change the subject, you can not answer, so that the other person's enthusiasm will naturally cool down and the other person will understand that you are not interested in him.

Step 3 find a suitable excuse

Find some suitable excuses to refuse the blind date, such as parents' disapproval, no common topic, height mismatch, not your type and so on.

4. Use other people's examples to refuse

When you find that the blind date is inappropriate, you can give an example in the chat. For example, you have a good girlfriend, and she also met a boy on a blind date. Because they are not in the right place, they are separated and not together. If the person you are dating is smart enough, he will understand what you are trying to say.

5. via SMS

It may be inappropriate and embarrassing to refuse in person. I suggest you send a text message to tell each other. You can explain why you don't like each other in a short message.

Step 6 keep your distance

If you find that the other party is still pestering you after you express an inappropriate signal, then you should pay attention to your behavior. Maybe you think you made it clear enough, but the other party didn't receive it. Every time a blind date asks you out to play, you don't refuse, and the other person will feel that there is still a chance. So it's important to keep your distance.

Step 7 expose shortcomings

On a blind date, I sat on my knees in a Japanese food store. The woman was more than an hour late. My legs were numb when I was sitting. When she stood up, she almost lost her footing. As a result, she didn't even sit down. She just said, "I told you my legs were not good, so I wouldn't have to come." After that, she left. She thinks I'm bad.

8. Don't accept each other's gifts

When you find that the blind date is not suitable and can't be together, if you don't accept the gift from the other party, the other party will understand your signal, so don't accept the gift from the other party casually.

9. Turn blind date into business.

Every time I contact a woman on a blind date, I send her a message in a very business-like tone: "Hello, please send the photo to my mailbox and then confirm the meeting time." So easily refused.

10, find a chance to explain why you refused.

If you have already said no, and the blind date continues to pester you to ask you out, you can tell the other person your concerns appropriately and euphemistically.

After chatting for a few days, I found that I didn't like how to refuse. 1. How can I end a blind date if I don't want to talk?

Now life is anxious and in a hurry. No one has that much energy to spend on unnecessary people. If you have no feelings for him, just say that you are not the kind of person I am looking for, not your type. Others will think that you are very direct and simple, and you will not be entangled. Two people who understand this truth will naturally not waste time with each other! So, if you don't like it, you can just say so.

When you date someone, you don't like them. You can praise each other for their Excellence. You must have been forced by your family. What a coincidence! Me, too. To save face for others, my brother is on the same side with him to complain about your elders and let them know that you are not planning to date. Since I'm not interested, I certainly don't want to develop with him. He naturally understands.

After dinner, two people can suggest going for a walk, because it's embarrassing to sit there if there's nothing to talk about when we meet for the first time. Girls can suggest going outside and walking around. It's almost time, so to speak, I'm tired, and I want to go back, so I ended today's blind date.

You don't like this man when you see him. In this case, you don't need to tell him to contact more in the future. You can tell him that you have something to do. Go back first and naturally end this chat. Because if you really don't like each other, there is no need to contact him more in the future. And there is no need to talk to him more during the blind date. It's also a waste of time to talk about those who don't like it.

It is common for blind date to meet dissatisfied people, because it is not a vegetable market to buy food, even if it is a vegetable market to buy food, you should choose the best, let alone find someone you will spend your life with. When a blind date meets someone you don't like, you must refuse in time, which is suitable for both sides.

Second, after a blind date, I don't like how to refuse.

1, tell the introducer

If what the introducer said is quite different from what we expected in our hearts, we might as well make it clear to the introducer directly and let the introducer go back for a blind date with us, thus saving unnecessary effort.

2. Clear attitude

Just because you don't like someone after a blind date doesn't mean that person doesn't like you. If the other person really likes you, he may not give up because of your rejection once or twice. I usually call you from time to time. Even if you refuse, I will use circuitous tactics, such as making friends and chatting with you on WeChat. After a while, he seems to forget that you turned him down and started harassing him again.

Step 3 reject each other

Generally, blind date is to leave a phone number after meeting in a hurry, and then contact each other when both parties go back to work. If you feel that there is no possibility for your development and the place is not your type at all, you must call the first family and refuse. Don't procrastinate, or you will waste both sides' time.

Step 4 make excuses

With the contact information, it is not so easy to refuse, but we can still find excuses to refuse him/her, such as parents think we are not suitable, such as having no common topic, and so on.

5. Be careful what you say

Although I don't like being given a "good friend card", it is undeniable to send a "good friend card" when refusing others. Although it is a refusal, it should be clear that it is not because the other party is not good, but because two people are not suitable for personality or other objective reasons.

Third, how to refuse blind date?

1, not ready to fall in love

Many people also want to know how WeChat refuses blind date. If you don't take the initiative to express yourself, others will always think that you have a good impression on others. If you want to refuse others, you can also choose some euphemistic ways, otherwise I am not ready to fall in love with you. Trust each other and you will understand the meaning of this sentence.

2. Say you are not good enough

If you refuse the other person, you can also say that I don't deserve you. With such language, the other party will feel that you attach great importance to him, and it will not hurt the other party's self-esteem during this period. I believe this rejection is acceptable. Love or not, don't force each other easily.

3. The introducer refused

If there is a blind date, there must be an introducer in the middle. Tell the introducer what you think and ask him to help you refuse a blind date. This is also a conservative approach, which will not directly hurt each other, nor embarrass each other and themselves.