Looking through the unsent text messages on my father’s phone, I finally understood how miserable his life was.

Many times we are always used to asking for things, but forget how much they live. After we discovered the secrets they had hidden in their hearts, we finally realized that they would also collapse and would not be able to resist. So we stopped quarreling with our parents and began to respect them and understand their hard work.

I used to think that growing up takes a long time, but now I find that growing up is often just a moment. In this moment, I will be completely different, from willfully comparing myself to being considerate of my parents.

In the past two days, there has been a heated discussion on the Internet. The main content of the topic is that a netizen saw the unsent text message from his father. Suddenly he grew up and felt that he was too ignorant and ashamed. Father.

Because his mother died of cancer, their family was destitute, but this netizen was very competitive. He used the lucky money he saved and the bonus from the school to buy an expensive mobile phone online without telling his father.

When my father found out, he didn't say much but was surprised that the hand was big. In fact, my father didn't mean that the phone was big, but that the phone was expensive. He just didn't have the nerve to point it out.

This netizen is very competitive. He buys mobile phones and MP4 players. In short, he will buy whatever he likes without considering his father’s feelings. His father sweats profusely on the construction site, but he lives a heartless life. , Not only was he inconsiderate of his father, but he also couldn’t do it after he had finished shopping.

If he hadn't accidentally seen the unsent text messages on his father's mobile phone, then he would probably never understand his father and not know how much pressure his father was under.

This text message was sent by his father to his brother. The content of the text message is very simple but very heartbreaking: "Lao Wu, I don’t want to live anymore. My life is so difficult."

When he saw the unsent text message from his father, he felt as if he had been struck by lightning. He never thought that his father would live such a miserable life, nor did he know that his father, who had always been strong, also had a fragile side.

It was at this moment that he grew up, began to try to understand his father, and regretted his past actions.

Parents are the strongest people in front of us. They don’t want us to see their fragility. Even if it is difficult, they will grit their teeth and persevere so that we can’t see it at all. Don’t think that they live an easy life. , In fact, they live a very miserable life. By the time you see it, it may be too late.

Life is indeed difficult, and the life of our parents is even more difficult. When we are wronged, we can talk to our parents and get angry at them, but when they are wronged, they can only choose to endure it silently.

If you can, please try to understand your parents more and don’t be self-centered in anything you do, because they may not say many things on their lips, but they are already exhausted in their hearts.

Have you ever heard your parents complain over the years? Have you ever heard them tell you that life is unsatisfactory? I believe many people have never heard of it, because no matter how difficult it is for parents, they will not pass it on to their children.

Even if it is very difficult, he will still try his best to satisfy you and not let you be wronged in the slightest. When they leave, there will be no one to protect you from the wind and rain. When you become a parent, you will naturally know how hard they have been.

Not speaking about some things does not mean that there is no trauma. The lack of calm on the surface may indicate an inner collapse.

We must know at all times that our parents are our protectors. It is because of their protection that we do not have to face death directly and can go further.

Cherish your parents while they are still alive, because once you lose them, you really can’t get them back.

Last weekend, my friend Xiao Liu’s father passed away. After learning that his father passed away, Xiao Liu was in great pain. He never thought that his father would grow old, and he never thought that his father would leave him. He thought that he and his father would There is still a lot of time.

Xiao Liu said: "I always wanted to wait until I was less busy at work and spend time with my parents, but until my father passed away, I was still busy. If time could come back, I would give up everything.

Many times we are like this, always thinking that it is still early, always thinking that the future is long, but the future is really not long.

We encounter many problems when we get along with our parents. Most of the time, they choose to give in. In fact, they are not wrong. They admit their mistakes just because they don’t want to make our relationship worse.

In this world, we don’t owe anyone, but we owe it to our parents. They raised us and gave us life, but we never thought of repaying it. When we finally wanted to repay it, we found that The other party has left.

We owe our parents too much. Even if we want to harm them, they only want us to live well. I once read a story, which deeply touched my heart:

There was a man who wanted to carry his elderly mother to the mountains and throw her away because he couldn't bear the pressure of life. When she was walking on the mountain road carrying her mother on her back, her mother... Keep spreading the beans.

He didn’t understand why his mother did this. She said that she knew what he wanted to do. She threw the beans as a sign and didn’t want him to go back and get lost. When his mother said this, the man burst into tears. , immediately carried her mother on her back and returned, no matter how difficult it was, she would give her mother a happy old age.

You see, this is parents. They always think about their children. As long as their children can live well, then they really don't care.

We owe our parents so much in this life that we may never be able to repay them. The only thing we can do is to take advantage of the time and stop hesitating, love them well, and cherish the fate of this life. .