Can we control our decisions?

When we wake up in the morning, we feel that we can control our decisions. We always feel that we are the ones sitting in the driver's seat. We always feel that everything is under our control, and we control our own decisions, which is hard for us to accept. The decision we made is only an illusion, but it is not what we made in essence. For example, when there was a disaster in a certain place last year, my mobile phone received a message of 10086, indicating that I didn't want to reply to the message. If I don't reply, I will directly deduct 2 yuan as the default system. When you receive this message, do you reply? Some people are unwilling to donate money from the bottom of their hearts, but it's only 2 yuan. Please reply. It seems that you are too stingy, just let it be deducted. In fact, telecommunications helped you choose this decision. If telecom put it another way, "I am willing to reply, I am not willing to reply, and the result will definitely be different. So people sometimes decide not to be in their own hands.