The art of inviting guests to dinner

In contemporary society, inviting guests to dinner is still the most important social form.

As the saying goes, it is not the face that treats guests, but the face that comes to dinner. There is a simple reason. In modern society, besides work, companionship and study, people's time spent at parties is already very precious. If time is a person's most important asset, although being invited to dinner costs nothing, it gives you the most precious time. Therefore, organizing a good party is an important responsibility of the organizer, which is not only related to personal charm, but also to respecting others' time.

0 1? Make an appointment early

First of all, we should choose people to complement each other in work, interest, experience, age, identity and even gender, so as to stimulate everyone's desire to understand and communicate with each other.

Secondly, there must be an advance amount. You can make an appointment by phone one week in advance and send a text message to inform the location on the last morning. This not only shows respect, but also facilitates the invitee to arrange time.

02? Good start.

A good opening remark is half the success of a dinner party.

First of all, eating also pays attention to famous teachers and tells the origin, which is convenient for everyone to distinguish guests, highlight key points and organize topics.

Secondly, eating also pays attention to feelings. An interesting opening remark adds interest and elegance, improves the level of the party, and sets a standard for every guest who is about to speak.

Finally, a good opening speech gives the host confidence and establishes his position in controlling the audience.

03? The scene should be controlled.

First of all, we should introduce topics, talk about friendship, talk about feelings, talk about attitudes towards social hotspots, and talk about professional issues that everyone is interested in. And set goals for everyone, providing information focus, sparks of thought and emotional explosion points. But remember to comment on acquaintances, especially leaders.

Secondly, to allocate time, you can take the form of a separate speech. Please ask several important guests to speak separately and give them time to fully express their communication. When some guests occupy the topic for a long time, you can change the topic skillfully by asking questions to other guests and changing the topic, but you should switch naturally and don't embarrass the other party.

Finally, we should divide and combine in moderation, leaving enough links for everyone to communicate with each other, but we should also raise our glasses at the right time; Point-to-point communication between a table of people can't be gossiping and messy.

04? Everyone cares.

Don't neglect any guest.

For example, when toasting, when you see a guest sitting alone coldly, you should circle him with words in time to avoid embarrassment.

For another example, individual guests have been silent for a long time, so we should lead the topic to him and encourage him to speak.

In short, a good dinner is a happy situation. Everyone had a good time and then went home. Everyone felt the joy of being respected and gained the nourishment of friendship and the motivation to move forward.

The next day, you will feel very happy to see the friends you introduced praise each other on WeChat.

Personal golden sentence:

1. In the current pace of life, every party is a reunion after a long separation.

Treating guests is not giving face, eating is giving face. Everyone has given you the most precious leisure time, and you must be responsible for everyone.

3. For the friends I know at work: work is the best practice and work is the best meeting; People who can get started at work must be their friends; Friends are only friends when they are in contact with colleagues at work and sit together in private.