What should I do if my father had a car accident and wanted his daughter who was in college to come back to accompany him?

0 1 The daughter who went to college refused to accompany her and was taken to court by her father.

Recently, a case about "a father suing his daughter for alimony disputes" was heard in public.

The plaintiff's father went out after the car accident, called his daughter in the ward and wanted to go to college to accompany her, but her daughter didn't answer every time, even the information sent by her father didn't return. Finally, her father's phone was hacked directly.

In this regard, my father is very helpless. He appealed directly to his daughter, asking her to pay alimony every month 1500 yuan.

The daughter is even more wronged by her father's practice. He said he was still in college. First, he has no financial resources to bear the alimony of his father. Second, he didn't have much time to go back to accompany him during school.

And there are two brothers at home, so you can take good care of your father without going back by yourself. As for the practice of hacking my father's phone, it is because my father sends himself short messages every day to complain, and my college life is already very tense, and I am tired of my father's daily complaints.

Should college students support their parents during their school days?

The dispute between the two can be described as "the public says that the public is right, and the woman says that the woman is right." In this regard, netizens are also talking about it.

Some netizens think that her daughter is simply "ungrateful" and does not go back to accompany her father when he needs care. Even if she has a brother, she can't represent her daughter's mind;

But more netizens look at the essence through phenomena. Obviously there are two brothers at home, but I just let my daughter go back to take care of it. This "son preference" idea is too eye-catching.

From the legal point of view, parents have the responsibility and obligation to support their children, and children have the obligation to support and help their parents. Especially those parents who are unable to work or have difficulties in life, have the right to ask their children to pay their own alimony.

For college students who have reached the age of 18, they have full capacity for civil conduct and their parents have no legal obligation to support them. Therefore, adult children aged 18 have the obligation to support, help and protect their parents.

But in most cases, 18-year-old college students are mostly college graduates and have no financial resources. So if they want to support their parents, most of them are powerless.

It is a kind of "new preference for sons over daughters" to only let daughters provide for the aged.

I have to admit that not all parents love their children, or in their hearts, sons are always more important than daughters.

I have a friend in the south. She told me that they all rely on their daughters to support the elderly there, so even if she has two younger brothers, she will be responsible for supporting the elderly when her parents are sick.

The fact that the father asked his daughter who went to college to pay alimony also confirmed this statement. Obviously, there are two sons who don't need it, but they have to let their daughter who is still at school take time off to accompany them. In the end, they went to court and really didn't take their daughter as their own.

Because only outsiders can calculate so clearly and try their best to search for benefits, but whenever a daughter is disobedient, unflattering and unwilling to pay, she must try her best to torture her, embarrass her and trample on her confidence and dignity.

There are always some parents who think that having children is the "master" of their children's lives, and even often hear a sentence from their fathers: "I am your father" and "What are you without me" and so on. ......

For this girl, it is estimated that the most common sentence is: "If you are a girl, you have to take care of me, which is your responsibility".

In real life, there are many similar experiences for girls. Some parents ruthlessly exploit their daughters in order to gain benefits for their sons.

How do parents treat their children equally?

Respect the model of getting along with children.

Both brothers and sisters have their own ways to get along. Letting children get along by themselves may make them get along more happily, but they may not get along well.

At this time, what parents need to do is to actively guide their children to appreciate each other and live in harmony, instead of being too biased towards one side and making the originally disharmonious relationship more tense.

Treat every child with the same mentality.

Parents have the responsibility to raise boys and girls and guide them to have a good world outlook, outlook on life and values.

Daughters and sons should be treated equally, and their sons should not be protected at the expense of their daughters' interests, which will affect their normal lives.

Boys and girls are all the same, and men and women should be equal. Even if parents are old and weak, it is mostly girls who are filial before going to bed.

Abandoning this "son preference" idea will make the family more harmonious and the life happier.