Children never take the initiative to call their parents. What should we do if we ignore them?

Children don't take the initiative to call and don't care about their parents. Many times, it's not that they don't care about their parents, but that they don't realize the importance of calling and saying hello. They will be able to understand when they become their own parents.

In this materialistic and fast-paced era, the pressure of children and the tension of time are obvious. Especially after the development of the Internet, mobile phones occupy almost all the time outside of work.

They don't call, or they don't have time, or they think their parents are not too old, uncomfortable and don't need their care, so they will ignore this aspect.

Just came to this strange city, my parents are in good health and live with my younger brother's family. The most important thing is that we were completely blind at that time. We didn't know anyone and didn't have a fixed job. We are thinking about how to live 24 hours a day, and we have no time and experience to consider our parents' feelings.

On the contrary, I will get a call from my father in a month or so. I don't talk much, and the talk time is only a few minutes. I always report good news instead of bad news. He always said, "As long as you are all well, I am relieved." I was in tears many times before I hung up. Saying no is self-deception. Later, my husband got used to my dad calling every other month and often telling me once a month. My dad is going to call soon, so pay attention to the phone. And often only for a day or two, that warm greeting from thousands of miles away will make the phone ring loudly.

Now the internet is developed, but unfortunately my father is gone, and my lonely old mother lives alone in the country. I call her every day before going to work. When I come home from work at night, I will turn on the video and listen to my mother's chatter while cooking. She will tell me everything that happened in the village that day. Who quarreled and whose cow gave birth to a calf? She kept telling me until she was sleepy and fell asleep. She relieved her loneliness, and so did I.

Husband and family have no such habit. When nothing happens, parents and brothers don't call each other for months. However, as long as something happens, it is so tacit.

So, if the children don't take the initiative to call, you take the initiative to let them know that you have been thinking about them. It is much better to influence them slowly and imperceptibly than to ask them directly.

The first thing to be sure is that whether to fight or not is not the same as whether to ignore it.

Children grow up, have their own life trajectory, and have their own social circle. They no longer rely on lazy parents, and the way to give back their parents' love is no longer just coquetry and a hug. As they grow older, their love will get deeper and deeper, from simple verbal expression to heartfelt mourning, which parents should know.

Children can't always be the same as when they were young. When they are in doubt, they should ask their parents. They should have their own thoughts and responsibilities. That's my son. He was very independent since he was a child. He got up by himself, had breakfast, fried eggs and went to school by bike since the fourth grade of primary school. At first he would sneak behind, but later he got used to it. We didn't send him until he graduated from high school. Later, studying abroad was also self-reliant, earning living expenses and rent by working and part-time jobs. Maybe he is used to being independent and won't call me as often as other children, but I know he cares about me very much. Flowers will be sent every birthday on holidays, and he will care about every bad mood in my circle of friends. This may be due to his personality. My colleague's children say hello on WeChat every week.

Love between parents and children or between children and parents is unconditional. I think since it is love, it should not be labeled as picky. If you love, you must love each other deeply, as long as we are all good.

I am the kind of child you said. I seldom take the initiative to call my parents. I feel depressed when I say hello to them once or twice a week.

If you don't call your parents, you will worry about them, and you will have nothing to say when you call.

Parents used to regard control as love. They called, either demanding or accusing you of doing something bad. It used to be that other people's children were prolific, but later it was that other people's children were more filial. Usually you want to do this, but you shouldn't. ...

Now that they talk less, I still feel depressed. Because when I was with my parents, I never learned how to communicate with them. Because the previous model was to listen to them and not talk back. Now they don't scold, and I don't know how to communicate with them.

My son is also an adult and works alone in the field. I never take the initiative to call my son. He always calls. At least three times a week, sometimes every day.

He always has something to say, so I can only listen. When he doesn't ask for my advice, I seldom give him advice, let alone take care of him "for his own good". He often makes mistakes or misses some opportunities, but he will also sum up experience and learn lessons in this process, which is much more effective than my plastic surgery.

So what should you do if your child doesn't call you on his own initiative? Cold salad! He is an adult and has his own life. Bless him, then take back his eyes and see what you can do to make your life more exciting, ok?

There are many such children now. what can I do? Sometimes my parents don't answer the phone, so I'll call you back later. I always feel busy. Yes, actually, I am chatting and playing games online. I always think that if there is something urgent, I will call back. I don't usually call, but my mother does. I'm used to it. That's it!

Never take the initiative to call your parents. It's not that you don't have feelings, but you don't have the right words to tell your parents. Some children are strictly bound by their parents since childhood, and they always have some resistance to their parents. How I wish I had the ability to leave them as soon as possible. I feel from my heart that I can't find the right words to communicate with my parents. Make an occasional phone call and hang up the phone in a hurry on the pretext of being busy.

There are not a few such children, but have you ever thought that the selfishness of children will make parents sad? They care about you, and if they don't call for three days, their parents will be upset. If a short message doesn't return, the mother will dream, worry and miss her restless mother, and would rather blast the phone than feel at ease until she hears the child's voice.

My daughter is such a child. She sends me text messages almost every day, and she calls me when she dreams that I open my eyes. She has been like this since she went to college. Discuss everything with me and ask my opinion. If I don't call for two days, I will call immediately. If I don't reply to the news, I will be very anxious and will be very uncomfortable. I didn't rest assured until I heard from her.

Only when the children are brought up can we know the kindness of parents. Inherit the wind. When the child walks on Wan Li Road, the mother is worried that no matter where the child goes, the parents' hearts will follow. Do not be selfish. When you are a parent, you will know what is most important.

There are many children who don't take the initiative to call their parents, and my nephew is one of them.

After graduation, my nephew took a job in other places. At the beginning, he often called to talk about his daily life and work. I haven't called for months after I found someone in love. Sometimes my parents miss him and take the initiative to call him, but he also hangs up quickly and perfunctory. What a pity!

Children grow up slowly, but parents are old, especially older parents, who expect their children to call to say hello without children every day. Children may be busy with work and life, or everything goes step by step on weekdays, and there are no more topics to communicate with their parents. Even if you are upset or unhappy sometimes, you don't want your parents to know, because parents can't help, but they will only increase their worries and worries.

As parents, we should also relax our mentality. As long as the child lives well and everything goes well, there is no need to constantly complain that the child does not call. If you need your child's help, you can also call your child on your own initiative.

Children are not active towards their parents. There are several situations. First, he may have a good life, or he doesn't want anything from you. Secondly, it is possible that his knowledge and cognition are not at the same level as yours, so he has no desire to communicate. Third, it is also possible that you have a bad life and are depressed, and your family certainly can't help you. Fourth, it is possible that his parents left an indelible shadow on him when he was growing up, which led him not to contact his parents and not to look back.

My daughter is the same, except for asking for money. Will not take the initiative to call my husband and me. I feel particularly disappointed. Now I hope she can find a job and stand on her own feet as soon as possible.

what can I do? Children are like this now. My son is 23 years old and studying outside. As long as I don't look for him, he will never contact me. If he wants living expenses, he will send a message to his father in two or three sentences. Dad's living expenses are gone. Call him, and it's over.

What else can I do? Cold salad! Haha, children nowadays are basically like this. My son is usually indifferent to us except that he has no money. Actually, so am i. I don't like making phone calls, but I am close to my parents' home and go there almost every day, so it is normal not to make phone calls. He's different. He went to work for a month, and when he came back to rest, he hardly went home. He lives at his grandmother's house. I'm better now, I have a wife, haha, I can't see you at all. Sometimes you can contact him on WeChat. His father ignored him on WeChat, and he had to wait for an opportunity to see him. People are like stars without timetables! Parents should get used to this kind of life now. It's normal for others to ignore you!