Smart women's "SMS flirting" method

Smart women know how to adjust the atmosphere between feelings. Here are some ways for smart women to flirt by SMS. Welcome to read!

We had a good chat at the first meeting, and then you received the following message: How are you? Nice to meet you. Let's meet again. I'll pick you up at six.

You really want to reply: Be there or be square at six!

You must answer: I'd love to, but I have an appointment. Can we meet next Monday?

Why?

You are really eager to meet him, and you even begin to fantasize about a beautiful relationship, but please set aside at least a few days for yourself. When a man is tempted, he is as eager to establish a relationship as a hungry tiger. They won't consider your feelings. At this time, you should be the one who controls the rhythm. He can't change from a stranger to your boyfriend in a few days. He should know that you have your own life and fun, and every minute of you is precious.

You can't reply with "I'm sorry I don't have time" because you are still looking forward to performing with him.

This means not to oppose your natural development, but to give men room to move forward and leave enough room for themselves. You still encourage him to ask you out again, but don't forget, you really need to leave time for your friends and family. It is absolutely wise to slow down at this time.

● Text message from the handsome guy I met at the dance last week: Where are you? Come out for a drink?

You really want to reply: where to go? I'll be right out!

You must answer: Excuse me, who are you?

Why?

He has two whole weeks to call you, but unfortunately he seems to be busy. Only when he feels that he needs a date, will he take 15.2 seconds to send you a message. He hasn't thought about asking you out formally in the past two weeks?

Don't give him everything, he still needs to work hard! This setback will remind him that he is too self-righteous and presumptuous, and you are definitely not the kind of frivolous girl who can be greeted with a glass of wine.

I met my ex-boyfriend at the mall, and then he sent me a short message: it's still so beautiful, I miss you so much. Let's find a place to sit down and talk some other time.

You really want to reply: you finally understand me!

You should take: ignoring is the best way, and reply at most: thank you, and talk about it later.

Why?

It's easy to send text messages with your fingers, but difficult to dial the phone, let alone chat face to face. If he really wants to see you, and even prepares to take a step towards a second date, he should not just send text messages. If he really wants to make up, his actions will not stop there.

There is no denying that your past memories will come to your mind at the moment you receive the text message, but he may not expect much from the reply. If you don't reply, the depressed mood will affect both of you, but now you need to force him to take action to know whether he is really willing to give up texting and call instead. If your indifference is exchanged for another short message from him, you should reply clearly and tell him that you want to meet and talk, not this way.

Give him hope, provided you want to start over with him. If your love history hurts you deeply, I suggest you turn around and walk away, and don't take the old road again. Say to him: you look good, too. Take care.

● At two o'clock on Saturday morning, a man who was having an affair sent a text message: I've been looking for you everywhere and I really want to see you. Can I come over now?

You really want to reply: don't you know my address?

You should take the following measures: don't reply, turn off your cell phone and have a good sleep. If you find him making dozens of phone calls the next morning, send a text message and ask him: Are you crazy?

Why?

Anyone who tried to contact by SMS at that time would be irresponsible afterwards. Why doesn't he send you a message on a normal day? Men are easily impulsive under the influence of alcohol.

Remember, beware of late-night text messages, usually from the devil of desire, full of hints of lust and debauchery. Don't give a man who is awake and afraid to contact you any chance!

You are cooking and watching a series. He said, what are you going to do tonight? Do you have a date?

You really want to reply: no, what about you?

You must answer: I'm cooking dinner. Let's make an appointment next week.

Why?

If he really wants to ask you out, he should inform you at least a few hours in advance, so that he can't know that you are a social animal with a rich amateur life, and your schedule is very full, and you will never change your plan of temporary dating with men.

Only good sisters and relatives have the right to ask to see you without saying hello in advance. For this kind of man, you should gently teach him a lesson, and those who refuse to mend can be directly excluded from consideration.

You should believe that your time is precious. It is his pleasure to take time out to date him. Of course, if you really want to see him, it's a little difficult to pretend, but you shouldn't be too tolerant of a man who asks for a date without saying hello in advance. Your principles about your time and arrangement can remind him to keep enough respect for you.

He stood you up on an appointment. He sent a text message saying: I'm really sorry. I attended a colleague's farewell party temporarily. Shall we make another appointment next week?

You really want to reply: there will be no more dates, asshole!

You must answer: no.

Why?

A man who doesn't respect you and your time will never get a second chance. It only takes five minutes to call you to cancel the appointment, which wastes your day.

It is not unusual for a man to do such a thing. Someone once specifically analyzed this phenomenon, and the only conclusion is that he doesn't love you as much as you think. Aside from etiquette and respect, you can put yourself in each other's shoes. If you fall in love with someone and have a chance to meet him, will you let it go easily? Even if there is an emergency and I have to cancel the appointment, I will grab the phone and inform him at the first time.

For men, this is a rather low-level behavior. Don't think you are narrow-minded. A more correct way is to delete it together with your mobile phone number.