What should I do if I have a conflict with my best friend?

No matter how good the relationship is, there will be conflicts with girlfriends. What if you have a problem with your best friend? Here's what I do when I have a problem with my best friend. For reference only. Welcome to reading.

What should I do if I have a conflict with my best friend?

First of all, find out the root of the contradiction and see what is the root of the quarrel between two people. Is it a small problem or a big problem? Need to affect the mood of two people? If it's just a small problem, there's no need to quarrel, or because two people don't communicate well enough in those areas.

Second, find out the root of the quarrel. You should repair the feelings of two people in time and not let the contradiction continue. In this case, your friendship will be stopped and there is no way to continue it.

Third, take the initiative to make up with each other. Don't feel that you are not wrong, there is no need to bow your head first. This is a wrong idea. No matter who is right or wrong in this matter, as long as one side bows its head first, the contradiction between the two sides can be alleviated.

Fourth, we should communicate well and express our ideas. Our suggestions or opinions are not targeted, but we just want to express our meaning and let the misunderstanding between the two sides be removed. In the process of communication, we can get to know each other better and enhance our feelings.

Fifth, spend more time to give each other opportunities to cultivate feelings. For example, they can often go out to the movies together, or go shopping together, which can give each other a chance to get to know each other better. Sixth, they can often talk with their girlfriends about their lives, their jobs and their ideals, so that they can resonate with their hobbies and dreams, which can also make two people have more' common language'.

Expanding reading: three unavoidable misunderstandings in love.

It is normal for two people to fall in love because of a little thing, but there is no need to worry about contradictions. As long as we communicate and explain well, we can continue to be sweet, and a good relationship will certainly withstand the "provocation" of contradictions. However, if there are contradictions and the methods are wrong, the misunderstanding between the two sides will sink deeper and deeper like a "swamp".

What mistakes can't be made when there are contradictions?

1, cold violence

When many couples have conflicts, some people always choose to escape, especially men, and women will think more and more in the process of conflicts, and the more they think, the more angry they become.

Whether the man or the woman have conflicts or not, they should not take an indifferent attitude. Never text, call or chat when meeting, because your words and deeds and your emotions are important criteria for the other party to consider whether you really care about her.

If you just take a cold approach to deal with contradictions, it will only make the other party feel disappointed and unfamiliar with you, and then gradually alienate you, which is a serious blow to your psychology and spirit.

Suggestion: Never use cold violence to solve problems. If you really don't want to face it, you might as well separate for a while, wait for the two sides to calm down, and then make up.

2, do not explain

When many people disagree, they choose not to explain, thinking that "if he really cares about me, he will certainly understand", so they keep everything in their hearts and wait for the other party to guess.

In fact, this is a minefield to maintain a long-term relationship, so don't explain it.

Suggestion: When there is a contradiction, many girls will be the more unreasonable side. I hope boys can have an inclusive heart. Since you love her, why can't you be more tolerant when there are differences?

Therefore, no matter who is right or wrong, as a boy, it is better to apologize first to comfort the girl's emotions, then choose a good time to give her a hug, and then slowly make things clear. At this time, it is difficult for her to get angry.

I don't know how to give in.

It's normal to quarrel, but two people must keep a low profile when quarreling. If they don't give in, it's easy to escalate the contradiction, so one of them must learn to take a step back first. No matter who is right or wrong, they can't add fuel to the fire when they are angry, so as to better ease the tense relationship.

Suggestion: Boys should take the initiative and be thick-skinned. Who let her be a girl or someone you like? Therefore, we must be unconditionally inclusive!

The above shared some ways to deal with contradictions for people in love, hoping to help you!