The first time I texted him, what should I say?

You should approach him slowly, because my current husband used to be a very introverted boy, and he doesn't talk to girls. I tricked him into being his sister and approached him, and then he slowly remembered that I liked him. Originally, he had a little affection for me, so he refused me to approach him. Later, I wanted to help him. One day he liked me and told me that he was hungry.

I want you to text him. Why don't you say, "Guess who I am? He will reply your message. If he doesn't reply for a long time, you can tell him who you are.

Don't come straight to the point and say I like you, then he will be afraid of you, okay?