Why does the other party still ignore you after the disconnection?

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The conflict between the two sides is fierce, and when the other side is angry with you, it is a process that must be experienced.

Disconnect, literally means disconnect. In fact, breaking off diplomatic relations is to give each other space and time to buffer their emotions, and also to give themselves time to adjust their mentality, improve themselves, and achieve their second attraction.

However, in reality, many people find that the effect after disconnection is not ideal, so they become very depressed, and even doubt the method of disconnection and recovery, and feel that disconnection and recovery are not credible at all. In fact, as a commonly used recovery method, the recovery effect is still relatively good. Then why did he still ignore you after you broke up? There are many reasons for this, but several are common.

Breaking up is a helpless and decisive choice when the contradictions and conflicts between the two sides cannot be alleviated, or when one side's emotions have been completely intensified, the two sides can't communicate amicably when they meet, or even can't live in peace at all. As long as you can get along and communicate, try not to choose. Before breaking up, we take the method of breaking up and saving, which is not an effort to save, but a signal to break up. Therefore, before you break the chain, you should know when it is suitable to break the chain to save love.

The second is that it is impossible to reduce the sense of demand for each other. The disconnection time is too short, and I want to find each other in two days. The other person's mood has not calmed down at all. The most basic premise has not been achieved, and there is no self-improvement. Such disconnection is not called disconnection at all. Both men and women need a period of time to completely calm down from the sadness and anger of breaking up, which is too short to achieve the desired effect. Of course, being disconnected for too long is often prone to accidents. Girls should pay special attention to this when saving their boyfriends. Many boys don't like to immerse themselves in the pain of the past, and it is easy to move on after breaking up. Once the other party has a new goal, it is impossible to save it, but it is undoubtedly more difficult. Therefore, in this case, it is best to know how long you will contact each other.

After breaking up, there is a golden period to save your boyfriend, that is, the other party has completely accepted the breakup and started to reflect on themselves until the other party moves on. Generally speaking, it takes about half a month to a month for boys to completely accept the fact of breaking up and start self-reflection, but it usually takes no more than two months to move on. Therefore, if a girl wants to successfully save her boyfriend after breaking up, it is best to seize the golden period of half a month to one month after breaking up. Time is tight, and there is not much time left for you. You must change yourself quickly and thoroughly, or you may miss the opportunity, waiting for you is a lifetime of regret.

The third is that I don't understand the meaning of disconnection at all, and I don't know what to do during disconnection. The fundamental purpose of breaking diplomatic relations is to recover, not to break diplomatic relations simply for the sake of breaking diplomatic relations. The purpose of breaking the chain is not only to calm the other side down and accept the facts, but more importantly, to improve and change themselves. This is the most important thing. Simply breaking up, not changing and improving yourself, even because you are immersed in the pain of the past, your charm is greatly reduced, not as good as before breaking up. What can be used to complete the crucial second attraction after breaking up? Many people often ask, whose fault is it to break up? In fact, after the real breakup, this has become less important. From the deterioration to the end of a relationship, most of them have certain problems. But since you want to take the initiative to recover, and after breaking off diplomatic relations, what you can do more is to start from yourself. Therefore, in the process of breaking away from recovery, don't ignore the point of changing and improving yourself. Only by changing your own shortcomings, enhancing your charm and dressing yourself appropriately can you lay a good foundation for secondary attraction.

In addition to the analysis of the above three aspects, it is also very important: when recovering from a broken network, you must remember that you have to recover, not the other party. Therefore, after disconnecting and making enough changes, we must not wait passively, but take the initiative to take remedial measures. Even during the period of breaking off diplomatic relations, we should actively enter each other's circle of friends and pay more attention to each other's dynamics. At the same time, strive to improve yourself. Once you find that the other party has accepted the fact of breaking up and started to reflect on yourself, you should take the initiative to seize the opportunity and don't miss the opportunity because of your reserve and hesitation.

Of course, one possibility cannot be completely ruled out, that is, under the right circumstances, if you break off diplomatic relations to save it, the other party still doesn't care about you. In this case, it is likely that you have caused too much harm to each other in the past, or there are really irreconcilable contradictions. If this is the case, there is little possibility of recovery. The advice I can give is to let go as soon as possible, so as not to delay youth. Don't be too sorry for this result, because you have worked hard.