Skills and methods of how to catch up with boys

Although there is a saying that "women chase men's barriers", many girls complain that it is too difficult to be separated by several mountains. In fact, this is not the fundamental advantage of being a woman. How does a woman chasing a man impress him? How can a woman succeed in chasing a man? Next, I will teach you efficient methods and skills for women to chase men, so that you can easily get rid of the barrier yarn for women to chase men.

According to a social survey in the United States, only 7% of women have the courage or are willing to refuse directly to those who pursue themselves. In other words, 93% of men will have an affair with women who are kind to them, but only 36% of men will eventually fall in love with them. The remaining 64% boys who "flirt" with women's feelings simply don't admit it, and their attitude is unclear. They said I couldn't bear to hurt her, so they politely refused.

First, how does a woman who chases a man impress him?

How does a woman chasing a man impress him? SMS is the first choice for women to pursue men. It seems casual, but it can fight a protracted war. Even if you are rejected, you won't be embarrassed. As long as you grasp the specious principle, it is not difficult to create it yourself. You can also forward short messages with high ambiguity index, which is very popular among men.

Express proper concern for him in short messages and give him an unforgettable feeling-if you are ambiguous from the first message, you will easily become a third-rate suitor who is taken advantage of by men. Before finding out his attitude, the safest information content is to show courtesy and proper care for him. If he has a crush on you, he will know.

Occasionally, a young woman shows weakness, arousing his sympathy ―― he looks at your weakness like "headache", "discomfort" and "I have a cold" with his mobile phone, and he must have forgotten it before reading it. You can know a little about his good feelings for you through his reply.

Second, how do women who chase men move him (other skills)

Gold cover works

Girls who chase boys are often too thin-skinned and shy. Some girls get up their courage at a little setback and give up halfway. This is a big no-no. Laroche is very popular in modern society. Nowadays, it is not necessary to have the word "black" in love, but we must remember the word "thick". Don't learn from the older generation of girls and say shyly, "Let our sweetheart guess for herself". Now popular girls are bold and straightforward: "Ding-dong, open the door quickly, Ding-dong, I want to fall in love with you!" Therefore, it is necessary to train girls not to blush, not to jump, and to be indomitable. This trick is especially suitable for honest and introverted boys, such as Guo Jing and Zhang Wuji. If you launch a fierce offensive, you will surely conquer him soon.

Sticking clothes depends on sticking people.

As the saying goes, "the days are far away, but the days are near." When two people are in contact for a long time, they will create opportunities. Therefore, when Meimei sees a boy she likes, she must create opportunities to haunt him. If she has the opportunity, she will approach him, and if she doesn't, she will approach him. Please look at the beautiful girl played by Yin Susu in The Dragon Slayer in Yi Tian. She used this strategy very well. Originally, Yin Susu and Zhang Cuishan are different, and there are many obstacles between them. If they become husband and wife, there will be many difficulties. But without waiting, Yin Susu skillfully used the power of Xie Xun and others to drift the boat to the island of ice and fire. In such an isolated island environment, it is indeed the best place for two people to get married. Later, Zhao Minmei Mei also expressed deep sympathy and used this tactic intentionally or unintentionally. Zhang Wuji and Zhao Min had a deep affection on the way to Lingshe Island.

Give it what it wants and hit it seven inches.

Everyone has weaknesses and hobbies. When people don't give gifts to corrupt officials, they often do what they like, such as giving money for money, asking for color, and asking for good antique calligraphy and painting for antiques, which often get twice the result with half the effort. Girls also chase boys. You can find his friends to understand his hobbies first, and then start from this aspect. For example, if you are good at playing games, you can ask him to teach you to play games. If you are good at playing chess, you can learn from him. If you like literature, you can talk to him about poetry. Therefore, as mentioned in the previous internal strength training, girls should practice their basic skills well and be familiar with all kinds of things, so that they will be handy when attacking in this way and be able to do both. Especially for smart and talented men, some of these men are obsessed with chess, poetry and painting, and have many hobbies. With this trick, he will definitely introduce you as a lifelong confidante, which makes him feel very lucky. Bai Juyi wrote a poem in the Tang Dynasty: "It's none of my business that the red flag breaks the thief, and the yellow paper is nameless except the book." Only * * * Liu Songyang, to gamble until dawn "Liu Yes, named Liu Shijiu. Both of them are big shots, not comrades-in-arms, but they play chess happily all night. If girls and boys have the same hobbies, boys will love you crazy.

Strive to get, give and accept.

It is said above that girls should be able to cover up their work with golden faces and catch up with boys with perseverance. But this is strategically speaking. In practice, if girls are bold and aggressive, smelly boys sometimes have resistance or suspicion. "The Art of War" said: "Those who are forced will rebel; There is no momentum when you go, and you will not be forced to follow. Tired of its strength, its fighting spirit, scattered and then captured, the soldiers are not bloody. " It means: advance directly to the enemy, and the enemy will fight hard; Conform to the enemy, and the enemy will naturally weaken, neither letting go of the enemy nor advancing directly. In this way, we weakened the enemy's strength and disintegrated his fighting spirit. When the enemy's energy is naturally exhausted, I can capture it in one fell swoop. Victory means not wasting a single soldier.

Take advantage of the fire to rob, and you will succeed.

As the saying goes, there are more icing on the cake, but less in the snow. Your lover must be unhappy at work, lovelorn, sick, sad, miserable and frustrated. As long as it's not Maitreya with a big belly and a bright smile, I'm afraid everyone will have these situations. This is the best time to attack. It is now or never. Seize this opportunity, rush to care for him, help him, speak softly and come straight to the point. He will remember it all his life and then fall in love with you. Sanwa in Yutangchun and Liwa in Liwa Biography all helped these fallen sons when they needed help most, so they got along well and finally got together.

A diversion, secretly crossing the river.

Sometimes, it is not easy to directly chase a boy you like. Or a boy is introverted, and you don't know much about him. If you act rashly, I'm afraid you will fail. So in some cases, you might as well start with his friends or roommates in the dormitory, pretend to attack other easy-to-get boys, and gradually get to know your real goal more clearly in the process of interacting with these boys-something about that boy. For example, what the boy eats, likes, likes and so on. At the same time, in the places where they frequent, let him know something about you, so as to detect whether he has a good impression on you and launch an attack at an appropriate time, which will be more confident.

Scare bees and butterflies.

After catching up to a certain extent, he can pretend to be his real girlfriend. And deliberately let his friends and even relatives and friends know about it on various occasions, and gradually your name will be right and your speech will be smooth. Give a warning before other rival girls are eager to try. He is your forbidden area, and no one can go near him! This will give you more confidence to stabilize your position. Also let your prospective husband reduce interference and temptation.

Draw a tiger away from the mountain, please enter the urn.

When appropriate, let him join your circle of friends. If he is out of town, you'd better let him work in your hometown. In this way, in your "sphere of influence", your BF is like a tiger leaving the mountain and a dragon leaving the sea. Everything is strange, so you must take the initiative to attack. In addition, your friends, relatives and friends keep promoting your benefits, so your BF will gradually be surrendered by you.

False infatuation is not epilepsy, and the finals will be won.

Although we talked about that girls should improve themselves and become smarter and more capable, not all men like girls to be smart, especially too smart. Therefore, at some point, girls have to be silly, simple and naive. Especially for smart men, they are always competing with each other. If they continue to play with you, they will be mentally tired. So you act silly, but he feels relaxed, thinks you are a very trustworthy person and is willing to tell you what he thinks. Then you are as stupid as a fool.

Sweet talk, sugar-coated shells

It's not delicious all the time, and it's easy to swallow. Everyone likes to listen to good words and flattery, even great men such as Chairman Mao are no exception. Besides, where's your boyfriend? Therefore, girls should always offer this invincible magic weapon that makes GG happy, which is naturally inseparable from you. Some girls treat BF, often "beating is pro, scolding is love". But after a long time, it is not good to "beat and scold" blindly unless your BF is a masochist. So sweet talk is necessary at the right time.