My mother-in-law was ill, and my husband asked me to resign and take care of her. What should I do?

In fact, I think there are many similar problems in life, that is, something happened at home, and this man instinctively felt that this woman should do it, but he didn't care. You see, in fact, many women are educated by their parents before they get married, saying that you should be filial to your in-laws, considerate of your husband, and be a good wife when you are with your in-laws. This sentence is true, but it has a premise that women should also be respected in their in-laws. If your mother-in-law is always giving you a hard time and your husband is the only mother, your concession at this time will only be connivance.

In fact, as a daughter-in-law, from the point of filial piety, it is natural to take care of her mother-in-law, but this sentence should not come from this man's mouth, so it is natural to say it and let you resign to take care of her mother-in-law. So whatever their attitude, what I want to tell you is, please be yourself. For example, you can take time off to take care of your mother-in-law, and of course you need to let this man bear the corresponding responsibilities.

Although you sent me a private letter saying that this problem is only a trivial matter, we can also see a problem from this incident, that is, if everyone has encountered a situation similar to being suppressed by men, they just want you to solve the problem, or they will be out if they don't solve it, and so on. This also reflects a problem, that is, in fact, you are at a disadvantage in this relationship, and you are losing your sense of value, and the reason for losing your sense of value may be before.

But I tell you, if you keep getting along like this, there will be many similar things bothering you, so the fundamental reason you have to solve is not this one thing, but that you have to regain your dominance and regain your value in marriage and family. Then the next time you encounter a problem, you can stick to your own ideas as you like, and you will know how to do it, don't you think?