Slogan of a certain local civil affairs bureau: Marriage does not mean

Do you still remember the latest slogan of the Civil Affairs Bureau that was trending on Weibo two days ago? "Marriage does not mean happiness, and being single does not mean unhappiness. We are born as one person, and we cannot leave at the same time in the end. Love is a spiritual luxury, and it is fine without it."

Let’s not talk about it yet. This paragraph of the latest slogan of the Civil Affairs Bureau is true or false, but it has indeed caused a lot of outcry among the majority of young people of marriageable age.

At the same time, this slogan also solved many people’s doubts, such as: Do people who have not met love have to get married? Will people who get married be happy? Why do people have to find a partner?

In the eyes of the elders, falling in love while in school is puppy love. As soon as you graduate and enter the society, you will face parents urging you to get married. So the question is, how did you find this partner? Is there such a thing as a gift for a graduation gift?

Many elders believe that when you reach the marriageable age, you must start looking for someone. When you meet the right one, you should start planning for marriage. Completely regardless of what you think, or whether you, the person involved, think it's too fast.

This expression expresses the sentiment of most people. Do we have to get married when we reach the marriageable age? Just like the line in the popular drama "Who Said I Can't Get Married": "You don't have to get married when you reach the average age, just like you don't have to die when you reach the average age." In fact, when you are eligible for marriage, it is not What is affected by age is feelings.

Some people are very stressed when they are single, because they are finally freed from marriage; some people live casually when they are single, because marriage has restricted their hands and feet. In life, how many people choose to compromise because of their parents, and how many parents choose to take a step back because they understand their children; how many people around you have hastily ended their marriages because they don’t want to listen to the urging of their seventh aunt and eighth aunt. In the end, the marriage became a simple one, but the soul had no destination.

When is the best time to get married? The answer is neither age nor national boundaries. There is only one suitable time period for marriage, and that is love. But love seems very luxurious to us who live a fast life today, so how will you choose? When you meet a suitable person and get married, or would you rather live without love than in excess?

Is love necessarily a necessity for a person? Some people get up at seven in the morning and work overtime at twelve o'clock in the evening without being able to sleep. People who are still thinking about how to relax properly during holidays, do they really still have time to take care of love?

For a person, love should be the rain and dew that nourishes the heart, and should be a booster when the spirit is depressed. Love will make two people become more beautiful and make two people work together towards the same goal. , love will become a cheering bag for two people. When one person is fragile, there will be a solid support. Of course, only this kind of love is truly worthy of marriage.