How do students and parents get along during online classes at home?

During the epidemic, many children took online classes at home, which gave rise to many conflicts between parents and children. Some relationships even deteriorated to the point of "incompatibility". It can be said that this long epidemic is not only a challenge to the country's fight against The test of epidemic prevention ability is also a big test of family parent-child relationship.

The first is the change in education methods. Parents must learn scientific education methods when it comes to education. When the situation forces them, they cannot be conservative. They must learn to talk to their children, especially older children, let alone Rude words and deeds.

The second is self-regulation of mentality. The trigger of conflicts is often an imbalance in mentality. Parents should take the initiative to balance their own mentality, and discuss with their children both academic requirements and permission. When a child makes a mistake, the child's progress often spirals upward. Only when the mind is calm will the child's approach become rational.

The third is to guide children with incentives. Children's learning requires internal drive, and the establishment of internal drive requires the accumulation of confidence. Starting from the affirmation of progress, the conversation atmosphere will have a harmonious starting point. , starting from criticism and accusation, the conversation quickly reached a deadlock.

The fourth is to be good at asking for help. In fact, teachers and parents understand children from different aspects and angles. Only through communication between the two parties can we outline the whole picture of the child. Educational methods can be learned from each other and used between home and school. Inspiration, after all, teachers are educational practitioners, especially head teachers, who have rich experience to offer.

The fifth is to participate in some activities together to break out of the barriers of learning. In a larger space, parents and children can understand each other more comprehensively and restore the original harmonious parent-child relationship. This Establishing parent-child activities is an effective way to resolve conflicts.

Parents should truly understand all aspects of their children, truly feel their children’s learning emotions, and have a relationship with their children as classmates, not as parents. We should complete the assignments assigned by the teacher together and experience the ups and downs of learning together. To resolve parent-child conflicts, there is another important principle that everyone needs to grasp, that is, in the process of communication, the most important thing is to have love.