Is it possible to have three children?

Families with these conditions, it is best not to have three children on impulse. It's easier to have children than to raise them.

Now the families around us are basically second children, but the life of the second child has not been stable for a long time. It can be said that when advocating the birth of a third child, there is no time to think about it.

Although our country has the largest population, many families still have reservations about having a third child.

Many families around Abu Dhabi have a second child, but for the third child, they dare not even think about it, and even some families are unwilling to have a second child. However, everything has advantages and disadvantages. Just because you don't have children doesn't mean others don't. Families who want more children or families who like children will have a third child.

However, Abdi feels that if you want to have a third child, you must consider it clearly. Once the child is born, you have to face many things. It's easy to raise a child, but difficult to raise a child. Since you are born, you must be responsible for the child.

Ma Bao, who has these conditions, had better not have three children on impulse.

In a few minutes

In some families, children are accompanied by grandparents at birth. Both husband and wife said that they would work hard for a better life for their children in the future, but they didn't have time to accompany them.

You know, what children want is not a good life, what they need more is the company of their parents. If this is the case with you, it is really not recommended to have three children.

Abed had a classmate who gave birth to three children but didn't take them away. The couple worked in other places and didn't go back to see the children until the Spring Festival. According to her, one year the child went swimming in the pond, and both of them fell. Fortunately, passers-by saw him and fished him up.

I was really angry after listening to what she said. If you don't have time to take you, don't give birth. What happened to the baby? Why should they suffer from the absence of their parents?

I don't know how to teach

Some people gave birth to several children and asked them how they had so much courage. He always said it would be great to raise children, so he read some books and found something to do. As we all know, no one can guarantee the future of children. If you can't give your children a good education, you might as well not have so many children.

There is a parent in abedi's daughter's class. The child is very naughty. In grade one, he never does his homework. The teacher told the parents several times, but the parents were indifferent. They also said yes. If children don't write, they won't write. They won't force them to study for the sake of studying.

In the second grade, the teacher asked the child to copy her homework, but her child just didn't want to copy it. Then she asked other parents what homework they had in the group all day, and everyone knew her situation, so no one paid attention to her.

Seriously, such a family is not suitable for one child, let alone three children.

③ Family disharmony

Couples often quarrel over trifles, so don't have too many children. One more child will only escalate the contradiction, and children who grow up in such an environment can easily lead to personality defects.

Abed's wife is like this. After giving birth to three children, she quarreled with my cousin every day because of the decline in her quality of life. Children are used to quarreling frequently, even prejudiced against their parents. They always yell at their classmates at school, and our relatives don't like their children very much.

There are many children in other people's homes

I know a classmate's mother. The third child in her family is actually what the mother wants when she sees that there are many children in other people's homes. It's fun to say. The eldest and the second are in a junior high school and a fifth grade. It should be that the mother is enjoying a happy life, but people are too busy to see other people's three children and even discuss with her husband to ask for another one.

Now, watching other people's children grow up and travel everywhere, she regrets it, complaining every day that she shouldn't covet other people's children and let herself have a third child at an inappropriate time. Most importantly, children ask their mothers all day why their classmates' mothers are so young and beautiful, while mine is so old.

⑤ Have an "invisible" father.

Abed's husband is such a father. He seldom participates in the growth of children, let alone takes care of them. It's not that he doesn't love our family, but that he is really lazy, so lazy that when he comes home from work, he only knows how to make tea and catch a play. After asking him several times, he always said that he should rest after work and cheer up. Taking care of the children will only make him listless at work the next day.

No wonder, who called me a stay-at-home mom, because my diligence made him lazy to breastfeed. In fact, sometimes I wonder why I have children. I was born to find things for myself. If I meet such a husband, I have no children. Everyone is relaxed.

Say at the end

Although there are many children at home, it is not suitable for everyone. If you don't think it over, you really shouldn't just have three children.