My son punched you twice, and you still don't let go. No one dares to marry a woman of your character. How can domestic violence be justified?

There is a kind of person who is like this.

He hit you, but you were not allowed to fight back. If you fight back, you are the worst person in the world. He allowed himself to make many mistakes and confidently believed that he was wrong and right. But he doesn't allow you to make mistakes, or even to resist his mistakes.

You resist, it's all your fault, and his fault is excusable.

If you meet such a person in your marriage, and it is not only a man, but also a mother-in-law. They only care about their own interests and feelings, regardless of your feelings, so please really stay away. Don't be afraid of being scolded, don't be afraid of the eyes of the world, and remember that protecting yourself is the first priority.

I sometimes marvel at the ruthlessness and calculation of men in marriage. They married a woman not because of love at all. They even said that they never loved the woman they married, but they would spend some time trying to please this woman, give her some small benefits and give her some sweet words before marriage. Let her immerse herself in this illusion of being loved, and then get married in a daze.

When they married this woman, they resolutely put aside all excuses, turned a blind eye to this woman, and even punched and kicked. They don't allow women to be pursued after marriage. They just hope that when a woman gets married, she should have children, take care of her parents and wait on him.

If a woman wants to be loved and spoiled after getting married, it's doing, it's looking for trouble, it's not living a good life, it's being beaten.

After six months of marriage, kurei was beaten by a man. When that man fell in love with her, he said it beautifully. He said, "Only incompetent men will beat their wives. I grew up watching my father beat my mother. I hated my father for a long time. When we get married, I will definitely not hit you. "

Kurei thinks he is the best man in the world, talented, capable, kind and considerate. It's not that kurei didn't know that he was born badly, but that she thought he was so good and he was born so badly. How pathetic he is. She wants to marry him, be kind to him, let him feel the warmth of home, and let him have the warmest home.

So, after kurei married a man, he was very kind to him, and they really had a very sweet time. But after kurei got pregnant, the man suddenly became like a human being. He began to lose his temper for no reason. Sometimes, kurei loses his temper without knowing why he is unhappy.

At first, the man didn't hit Li Hong, he just broke something. But at that time, Li Hong was pregnant, and she dared to be angry at this behavior of men. Plus, every time a man loses his temper, he will put things away and apologize to Hongli, so kurei never thought about getting a divorce.

What kurei didn't expect was that throwing things was not enough for men to vent their emotions. Once the man lost his temper inexplicably and started throwing things again. Kurei advised him not to be like this all the time, and he really couldn't stand it. She wants men to think about her body. She's pregnant, and she really doesn't want to bear this pressure mentally all the time.

To kurei's surprise, this man not only failed to converge, but also punched kurei. Kurei was knocked down by a man, his head buzzing and his body ached.

After the man hit kurei, he even said to her, "Did I tell you to talk? Did I tell you to talk? When I'm in a bad mood, you shut up. I'm in a bad mood, and you're still looking for trouble, just looking for a fight. "

The man went out after playing kurei. Kurei was lying on the ground, and his heart suddenly returned to the ashes. She woke up from the shock, the pain gradually became clear, and kurei began to really feel fear.

She was so scared that she would spend the rest of her life in this fear. She suddenly made up her mind to leave the man at any cost. Even if you can't get married for a lifetime after divorce, you can't live with such a man for a lifetime. Because it's really scary.

Kurei's tears slowly left, from the initial shallow to the final surge. She is not crying for leaving this man, she is crying for her children. It pains her to think of her children.

But she knew she couldn't have the baby. Because having this child means that you will never get rid of the involvement with men. After much hesitation, she thought about keeping the child, but what about after the child was born?

If she doesn't divorce, the child will grow up in such a violent environment. She is divorced, and her children are from a single-parent family, and she still has to entangle with the man's family.

Kurei lay on the ground until it was dark, until she began to feel extremely uncomfortable. She thought, why torture yourself like this? Now that it has reached this point, stop loss in time.

She called her parents, and they will pick her up soon. They were very angry when they saw their daughter hurt. When the man was not at home, her parents went to talk to her mother-in-law.

Her mother-in-law was not surprised and didn't think it was a very serious matter at all. She said: "when two people quarrel, the man has a big temper and can't break it." When he comes back, I'll tell him to restrain himself. "

Kurei's parents didn't want to get involved with such a family, so they took their daughter home directly. They don't feel uncomfortable when their daughter wants to divorce, but they feel that divorce is a relief. Kurei's mother said to her, "Knowing that he is such a person, it is best to get a divorce. You are at their house, and your father and I are not at peace at home. You're pregnant, and he dares to hit you. Then how will you live in the future? "

It took a man and his mother three days to come to kurei's house to discuss divorce. The man said to kurei, "I was wrong. I won't hit you again. We all have children. Why did we divorce? Come home with me. Go home and let's live a good life. "

Kurei's mother-in-law said: "With children, can I really get a divorce?" . What man doesn't beat his wife? If a man loses his temper in the future, let her stay away. This man has a bad temper, and the woman has to count herself and know when she can talk and when she can't. You have to punch my son twice, so be merciless and divorce. Then no man dares to marry a woman of her character. "

Kurei had only a feeling that he wanted to slap himself. How blind I was to marry such a man and such a family.

Kurei is determined to divorce, but her husband and mother-in-law always think that she has children and will not divorce. When they left, they even said to the woman, "Now we call you, but you don't leave. No one came to call you after that. "

Kurei's parents saw this attitude in the men's home, and just wanted them to leave quickly. Kurei's father said to the man, "If you are still a man, divorce my daughter happily."

Kurei finally gave up having children. After she didn't want children, the man's family began to worry.

The man and his mother came to kurei's house to scold him. The man scolded, "I have never seen such a cruel woman as you." Didn't I just slap you twice? I apologized to you, too, and I came to pick you up, so you will be firm. Now that she doesn't even want children, she is simply the most vicious woman in the world. "

The man's mother scolded, "Didn't my son just punch you twice?" That kind of injury will be fine in a few days. You don't even want your own child for such a small injury. A woman like you doesn't deserve to be a mother. "

Women, please remember what I said below: excessive kindness is not kindness, but stupidity. When your kindness becomes the reason for others to hurt you, you should know that you are not kind, but cowardly.

What is kindness in the eyes of men and men's mothers?

They think kindness is that if you are beaten, you should kindly forgive him. Then go back kindly and have a baby kindly. Even if he will hit you again, you should stay for your own good and for your children's sake and continue to endure it. He hit you and destroyed your family, that's right. If you resist, you want a divorce, that is the biggest mistake, that is, unkindness.

Do you want to give them such kindness?

Many people will advise you to give them such kindness. A woman was cheated by a man. Men are right, but women are wrong. Who made her so stupid? Women leave men because of this kind of deception, and women are just not kind. They will say, if you are kind, you should forgive his deception and don't care what he hides.

If you are not kind and forgive, you are not a good woman.

There are too many people who want you to repay evil with good, but forget to answer you. Good for good, why good for good?

Kurei suffers from domestic violence. In order to stay away from domestic violence, she gave up her children and protected herself. I never felt that she was wrong. I think this is her rational choice. I don't think she should put up with it. I don't think she should have given birth to the child because of that momentary kindness.

Having children is a woman's choice. Whether she is born or not is her freedom, and others have no reason to interfere. What's more, is it really good that she gave birth to that child?

Some time ago, many people watched a video. As soon as the woman set up her mobile phone, the man began to insult her. When a man violently attacked her at home, it was accompanied by the crying of the child.

If it is such a family, such a father, is it really for this child that this child was born?

Kurei finally divorced a man. After the divorce, she was exhausted physically and mentally and spent a long time healing. The man she married for the second time is very simple. She gave birth to a child and lived a very ordinary life.

But she feels very satisfied, because she has been completely away from the harm of domestic violence all her life.

Women must remember that not all men are violent. According to the probability around me, more than 80% of men have no domestic violence. Therefore, don't trust the brainwashing of some people. When they tell you which man won't hit a woman, please tell him that any man with some skill won't hit his wife.

In addition, remember not to have illusions about domestic violence. Don't expect yourself to change men and stop domestic violence.

Remember, for domestic violence, staying away is the best protection for yourself.

I have written many articles about domestic violence, and a girl left me a message saying, "I can fight violence with violence, and I can beat him while he is sleeping."

Dear you, really don't be so stupid.

Because you don't know who some men are. And there is a great disparity between men and women. What if he resists?

I really don't want to take any chances in this matter.

When you clearly know a man's domestic violence, stay away from him. As for what will happen to him in the future and what kind of punishment he will receive in the future.

That's his own business.

It's really none of your business.

If you are a woman with children like kurei, or have already given birth, you really should stay away from him, even for the sake of children. Because once a child has witnessed domestic violence, that kind of trauma is difficult to heal for life.