Don't cut down trees in winter.

I have read the article "Don't cut down trees in winter". It's about a 9-year-old kid who went to grandpa's small farm to play and found that one of the fig trees in front of the house was dead, so he asked grandpa to cut it down and plant another one. Grandpa said, "Maybe it's really impossible. But after winter, it may germinate, it may germinate-maybe he is saving his strength! Remember, son! Don't cut down trees in winter. " As grandpa expected, the tree really sprouted again the next spring. In summer, the whole tree looks no different from its partner. The 9-year-old child became a primary school teacher when he became an adult. In his teaching career of more than 20 years, he encountered similar situations more than once. Pierre, who always stutters over incomplete letters, has now become a lawyer. But Basque was the most naughty and got the worst grades, and later became a top student in the university.

I think of those naughty apprentices. Now some of them are well-known in business circles, some are very popular in institutions, and some are at home in universities.

Today I want to talk about Yu Fan, a different girl. 20 18 12.6 She sent a short message: "Miss Li, I 1 9 went back to see you. It's cold, please take care of yourself and don't be too tired. " Every holiday, she never forgets to wish me "Happy Mid-Autumn Festival", "Happy Teachers' Day" and "Love You", or greet me with a happy holiday, or remind me to add clothes on time, or remind me to rest. The joy of being a teacher, because of her greetings, lingers all year round.

? I remember when she was admitted to sichuan university of media and communications, she couldn't help but be filled with joy: "Teacher, I will work hard in the university. I majored in broadcasting in college. I will definitely study hard. I am very interested in this. " After she went to college, she happily studied broadcasting and hosting every day, tirelessly studied photography, broadcasting and choreography, and did not forget to develop hobbies such as dance and piano. She has just won a scholarship. As a study member in the class, she is strict with herself and sets an example to help other students in the class practice their basic skills. At the end of the term, she sorted out her study notes and shared them with the class group, so that she could get along well with other girls in the dormitory. She has the spare capacity to study, and also hosted many public welfare activities, and actively participated in the love association organized by the school: chatting with lonely old people, playing games with mentally retarded children, collecting clothes and daily necessities not used in school dormitories, and giving them to homeless people on the streets of Chengdu ... She cherishes college life, wants to learn more during college, and tries her best to help those in need. She showed her knowledge and personality in these activities.

She has a clear goal, active thinking, open mind and understanding. I am proud of her change. But in the three years of junior high school, there were ups and downs, laughter and tears, singing and sadness.

As a junior high school student, she is lively and cheerful, and has a good entrance record. Keep the students' heads shiny and smooth. Qi Mei bangs, big eyes, long eyelashes, clear eyes always shine like stars. I was deeply impressed by my self-introduction when I entered the class. I have a bright smile, a confident and generous voice and beautiful fonts. In the sixth year of primary school, she won the first prize in the county-level speech contest and the first prize in the county-level singing contest, which was loved by teachers and classmates, and even the principal appreciated her. It can be seen that the sense of superiority and happiness at that time.

In junior high school, she is a master like a cloud, with many subjects to learn and a big psychological gap. The boarding life of resting once every two weeks makes her very uncomfortable. Several times, I saw her standing alone in the corridor looking out, her eyes full of sadness that a teenager should not have. Talking to her, tears rolled down the student clothes. She said that all her good friends in primary school are in the great wall middle school, and she is very lonely now.

I enlightened her several times, such as "I can't bear to part with my good friends in primary school, because you have established a profound friendship in the past six years, and you can become good friends with your current classmates in the future." "Our school is the best in the county, and others can't get in if they want to. You should cherish it here." "The mode of curriculum reform here suits you very well ..." She put in a good word and agreed very well at that time. She will go to Lacrimosa in three days, and she is bent on going to the great wall middle school. A child who is obsessed with an idea is hard to change.

? In order to make her like it here as soon as possible, I want her to like the subject I teach first, recommend good books to her, and arrange for her to be a representative of Chinese class. I can't wait to transplant my passion for Chinese into her heart. She participated in early teaching and research, assigned early reading tasks, sent and received homework, and calculated Zhou Qing's grades. She is serious and responsible, doing things in an orderly way, but there is still melancholy in her eyes, which makes people worry.

Later, she was asked to assist She Xishuo as a sports committee member, and the morning exercises were organized in an orderly way, strictly mastering the slogan of the formation queue. She stood in the front row of our class to demonstrate the broadcast gymnastics competition. Her movements are in place, and her arms and legs are stretched freely. I think she will be very fulfilled and full of joy. But when I approached her, I hung my head and looked sad. Tears ran down my eyes when I spoke to her. Other students have long adapted to it, and their laughter can be heard everywhere. Only she, unhappy, poor.

I have been talking to her, expecting a conversation or a sentence to touch her heart. In the second grade, she seemed to adapt, and I was relieved. Never thought, during a lunch break, she was late for class, and two girls from the same dormitory rushed over. Three people stood in front of me shyly, and their good straight hair turned into wavy curly hair, which made me laugh and cry. "Everyone loves beauty, but it's not worth being late for class because of beauty. Wave roll is not suitable for junior high school students. You can have whatever hairstyle you want when you go to college. Change your hairstyle after school ... "

The love of beauty made her pay attention to her image. Her original font was beautiful, her homework was sloppy, and her dictation error rate was getting higher and higher, especially her math scores dropped sharply. In another interview, I shared the story of my school days with her. She opened her heart to talk about her joys and sorrows, and said that she should be filial to her dear grandmother when she grew up. I asked her to help me investigate "What kind of girls are the most beautiful". She seems to be very happy in every conversation, but it doesn't last long, and soon she is addicted to it and has no intention to study.

Perhaps the colorful activities occupied her heart and she stopped thinking. She joined the school radio host and dance club. Hosting the school party is natural and adaptable. With the foundation and talent of dance, she is unique in the dance club, teaching and leading the dance, not to mention. Her dance program won applause at the May Day cultural performance. And a student in class 2/kloc-0 won the first prize in the county. She seems to have no joy of success, and her indifferent mental state is worrying.

? Her academic performance gradually declined. Later, because I liked a boy in another class, I was even more reluctant to study. I recommended a good book to her, hoping that she can find something in the book that can lead her to the depths of interest and make her forget everything else. She can't do it. One evening self-study found that she was writing a novel and had a crush on that boy. Her writing is delicate and intense. She wrote more than ten pages. She thought I would be furious, but I told her that you were rational and you were in so much pain that you didn't even talk to him. Writing is also a kind of talking, and the process of talking is also a process of relaxation. Maybe when you write it, you will suddenly understand that this is not love, this is love, this is not the whole of your life, it is just a part of your life, and you may laugh at yourself for being naive. Keep writing. Write100000 words and you can publish a book. I supported your publication, but she stopped writing. Sometimes depression can't suppress a person's thoughts and emotions, and homeopathic counseling may get good results.

She began to study in the third grade last semester, and her long-lost smile reappeared. Two years of protracted war deepened their feelings. When she found me playing a rotten umbrella on a rainy day, she quietly put a new umbrella in my office with a note, "Teacher, I know you live frugally and can't bear to throw away that umbrella, but that umbrella is really ugly." Please accept this umbrella "; When she found me walking to the office after class, she put a note on her exercise book: "Teacher, you look very tired. If you need my help correcting homework, please call me at any time "; When I prepare to go home after studying at night, she will tell me to "slow down on the road" ... learn to be a man first, and then learn to ask questions. Sometimes being a man is more important than academic performance. From me, she gained not only knowledge, but also quality, education and dignity.

Life is smooth sailing, I hope it will be smooth when I graduate. With the approach of winter vacation, the school further strengthens management and stipulates that students must move to a place five meters away from the school wall. The class meeting only emphasized that in the afternoon after-school activities, she received things from her classmates against the wall outside the school gate, and the grade immediately informed her to stop classes and go home. At that time, my colleague advised me that you had worked so hard for her and it was always right to be with her. It is not a pity to take this opportunity to persuade her to leave.

Every child has a kind flame in his heart. If you light this flame, it will burn brightly and then go out, which will stifle her growth. I don't want to punish a repentant person. At the end of the class suspension, I told her: "I don't like to look at people with old eyes and be myself again." The teacher believes you! " What makes me happy, surprised and excited is that she seems to be a different person, with no distractions, cherishing time as gold, actively answering questions in class and often asking questions to teachers and classmates after class. Ideological education is far more than "preaching" to me, but a simple and natural person.

The difficult students in the class deal with us the most. Although they can't change their old habits, they can all see the teacher's good intentions and have the deepest feelings with us after graduation. After three years of protracted war, we are not only the relationship between teachers and students, but also the trust between friends and the concern between mother and daughter.

? She has kept in touch with me since graduation.

? Today, I appeared in front of me with a bunch of flowers, beautiful and elegant, and my eyes shone like stars.

Although she has a holiday, she insists on reciting 50 words every morning and practicing piano or dancing in the afternoon. She said that the biggest influence on her was me and her grandmother. She learned to be self-reliant from her grandmother, and she also wants to be an example for class cadres after learning from me. When doing something wrong, she must first reflect on herself, and girls should read more books to cultivate themselves.

She worked hard in college life. She said, "I have been reminding myself of one thing all these years. Never touch yourself. What most people seem to be hard work is actually what they should do. This is just the daily life of students in famous universities, which is nothing. It is inevitable that people will feel sorry for themselves. Only by staying awake at all times can we see the real value. "

Dear parents of the old class, please wait a moment when you meet a difficult student. Don't cut down trees in winter. Some trees now look as if they are dead. Next spring, when they meet the right sunshine, temperature and moisture, they will sprout, sprout and be full of vitality.