What is the most memorable sentence from your parents when you were growing up?

The sentence I remember most is that you are a very good child. Let’s take a look at the correct education methods for parents. Only doing so will help their children grow.

1. In family education, the most commonly used method is conversation. The quality of conversation is closely related to the art of conversation.

Conversation is a heart-to-heart talk between parents and children in a democratic and harmonious atmosphere. The timing of the conversation should be appropriate, and the topic should be beneficial and interesting to the child. Before the conversation, parents should induce their children to pour out their innermost thoughts without restraint, and then give back their own opinions that are superior to their children's as a gift to their children. Through the exchange of ideas between parents and children, children can be taught and inspired. Simply parents speaking and children listening, without feedback and discussion, cannot be regarded as real communication. It is even more undesirable for parents to use conversation to sarcastically reprimand their children, nagging them endlessly about trivial matters, and making their children feel disgusted and bored.

The art of conversation is mainly reflected in the capture of conversation opportunities and the use of conversation methods. Generally speaking, parents and children should not talk when they are in a bad mood, especially when they are angry; do not talk when the whole story is not clear; and do not make critical remarks when outsiders, especially guests, are present. Conversation; it is not advisable to have critical conversations at the dinner table or before the child goes to bed. Therefore, the timing of education must be flexibly grasped, and everything should be based on the needs of education, especially the effect of education, and based on the criterion that children can accept it. Conversation can be done in a variety of ways. Among them, casual conversation, which is a broad, relaxed and joyful conversation regardless of time, place, or content, is often a popular conversation method for children.

2. The Art of Activities with Children

Family atmosphere is one of the important factors in implementing family education. Activities with children is one of the effective ways to create a good family atmosphere. .

In life, there are many opportunities for parents and children to do activities together, such as going to the wild with their children. Nature is beautiful: flowers in spring, cicadas chirping in summer, fallen leaves in autumn, and white snow in winter are all infinitely attractive to children. Parents take their children on outings during the season. The pleasing natural scenery will bring children beautiful reveries and longings, and bring back parents' memories of interesting childhood events. With the same state of mind and language, the distance between the elder and the younger suddenly disappears, and any amount of educational content can be carried out at this moment.

Go sightseeing with your children. If you can take your children to travel abroad during the holidays, your children will be happiest. Those places of interest and various exhibitions are worth visiting. During the tour, if parents can give incisive explanations, children will admire them the most; if they show insufficient knowledge, parents will be forced to read books and look up information, which will win the hearts of children.

Go shopping with your kids. When children are young, they like to go shopping with their parents. Parents can take the opportunity to introduce product knowledge and the principles of diligence and thrift in running a household. When children grow up, they can shop for their families and themselves. They can talk while shopping, watch and walk, and the two generations are not wary of each other. This is a good opportunity for education.

Have fun with your kids. After dinner and on holidays, the whole family shows off their talents, plays, plays, sings, and chats, which fills the family with a joyful atmosphere and enhances family cohesion and the fun of life. There are many activities for parents and children to participate in together. The purpose of cooperating activities is to eliminate the generation gap, harmonize relationships, and allow family education to be carried out in joyful, cordial, and unrestrained activities.