How to evaluate Dayu's "three times without entering the house"

Every time I see this topic, I think of the little girl. She dried her tears and asked the protagonist in the story, "Is it always so hard for adults?" .

The man just smoked a cigarette silently. In the night, white smoke filled the air, and the man's face was looming. He silently said, "Actually, it was not bad."

Yes, the world of adults is always so hard. Men have been taught since childhood that they should be responsible and responsible. Some things are your responsibility as a man, and you must bear it. On the stormy road, everyone is carrying a heavy load, which has been the case since ancient times.

As far as his family is concerned, the flood will endanger their lives one day. He has the obligation to treat the flood and bring them a peaceful and happy environment.

As far as the leader of the team is concerned, the identity of the leader brings him not only power, but also a heavy burden. He has the obligation to live better with his team members.

So he must deal with the flood. Anyway, for a long time, even though he is missing his family, the problem of flood is the first.

Sometimes I envy irresponsible men, because they can violate their inner morality unscrupulously. Maybe they have no morality in their hearts, and they can do many happy things. They can make their girlfriends happy unscrupulously, just talking and doing nothing.

They can write blank checks to others without fear, and they can be forced without psychological pressure. Anyway, they can brag about not paying taxes and not being locked up. What is there to be afraid of?

but it's a pity that many people are not, so when they meet their wives who don't understand them, some things burn at the touch, especially when you are tired? You have done a lot for this family, and you should be comforted, instead of getting the result of quarreling when complaining. Your mood will burst out completely in an instant, and you will deeply hurt each other with the person you love most, and maybe you will end up in the end.

Many times, a man's responsibility is to hurt his family, but he can't go against his inner justice. Perhaps this is a selfish act, because their justice can't make way for others.

but sorry, this world is always like this.