What should I bring to meet my relatives?

First, the time to pick up relatives is not as early as possible.

People who have been bridesmaids must know that they have to get up early on the wedding day and wait for the groom to lead a team to pick up relatives. So, is it better to pick up relatives as early as possible? Actually, it's not.

1, calculated according to the auspicious time of the wedding

Wedding time is usually a precise auspicious time. According to the process of the wedding day, the time to pick up relatives can be calculated step by step. For example, the wedding time is 17: 28, and it takes two and a half hours to pick up relatives one way. Plus the time for blocking doors, playing games and offering tea, you will know when to leave when you go straight ahead.

2. Find someone to calculate the auspicious time for going out and entering the door.

In some exquisite places, people will be asked to calculate the time when the woman goes out and enters the man's house, and arrange the course of the day according to the calculated auspicious time. Either way, try to leave enough time to avoid special circumstances.

Second, who can't marry?

On the wedding day, the groom will take a large group of people to pick up the bride. Local customs are different, so the focus of docking relatives is not exactly the same. Some ask for a happy marriage, but some say they want to be unmarried.

However, most regions have the same requirements for these two points. First, the total number of relatives is even. If the number of people brought by the groom's family to greet the bride's family is odd, then the number of people sent away by the bride's family must be odd, which together is exactly even. Second, there should be no conflict with the new family or the eight characters among relatives, and there should be no second marriage or divorce, which is unlucky.

Three, the five points for attention of the route of picking up relatives

The team has to go through the journey and the return journey, which are very important, and there are some stresses in traditional customs. In order to ensure everything goes smoothly, Sister Xiaoxi suggested that the couple arrange a motorcade to pick up their relatives one day in advance. If the journey is long, be sure to confirm in advance whether the driver of the wedding car already knows the route arrangement ~

1, try not to take the bumpy route.

The pick-up route of the wedding car should choose a spacious and flat road, and try not to take the bumpy path. One is because of safety, and the other is because the unimpeded route indicates the smooth life in the future.

2. Don't go back.

It has always been a taboo for traditional weddings in China, which sounds unlucky. Newcomers must pay attention when planning the route in advance, and never go back!

3. The route to meet relatives should not be too complicated.

Before the wedding, it is best to arrange the person in charge of the motorcade to take a walk in advance and plan the route and backup route to avoid delaying the wedding in case of traffic jams and other emergencies. Try not to make the route too complicated, or the team will easily lose track of it ~

Tips: Interested drivers can prepare a map in advance and send it to each driver, and mark the route 1 and route 2. In fact, many map apps can also share real-time routes, and they can also pull groups for drivers and follow the route of the main wedding car ~

4, pick up the car to obey the traffic rules.

The car that picks up the bride can't run a red light just because it is a wedding convoy, which violates traffic regulations. When arranging a wedding car, you should also be careful not to cover the license plate, which is illegal.

The bride can't get off by herself.

The groom should get off the bus with the bride in his arms, and the bride's feet should not touch the ground before entering the house, otherwise the blessing will slip away. If there are firecrackers in the man's house, the groom and the bride will not get off the bus until the firecrackers are finished.