Quarrel with your elder sister-in-law and talk it over.

There are always some elder sisters-in-law who are easy to talk about and have children without marriage, but they always complain that elder sisters-in-law or younger sisters-in-law are not good to their parents and ask them not to help with the children, saying that it is not their parents' obligation to take care of the children, nor is it their obligation to ask their wives to buy a house. However, after her marriage, her eldest sister-in-law's attitude towards her in-laws became worse. Take the child back to her mother's house when she is angry at her husband's house. Just get married for a day or two, and get married far away for ten days and a half. I didn't cook or wash dishes when I came back, and I yelled at my parents. All the housework is done by her parents and our sisters-in-law. Her child hit our child and told her parents that it was our fault. Can't you say she's unfilial? Don't come back and get married if you can. All the children will be taken care of by yourself. Let her husband buy a house and marry his wife in the future. Don't let parents-in-law and parents take care of their children in the future? What kind of person? To put it bluntly, she is not as good as a daughter-in-law as us, and she is not qualified to educate us!

People are mutual, have not experienced it personally, so don't ask others if you can't do it yourself. We also want to live in harmony, and we also want to be nice to our in-laws, but sometimes your parents are really unreasonable and overbearing, and we are helpless.