When my brother-in-law got married, I gave my mother-in-law a bride price of 6.5438+0.2 million. Isn't that enough? What else do you want?

My name is Liu, and I'm 42 years old. In the last two days, my mother-in-law came to me from the village and said, "Eldest daughter-in-law, help me. If you get married at your brother-in-law's house, you can give me a bride price of 1.2 million, so give me a pension in advance! " Mother-in-law said very pitifully, and even cried with tears. But I think her request is too abrupt and unreasonable. My son and daughter-in-law want to support the elderly, but you asked me to give you a bride price of10.2 million, which is really hard for me to accept. What my husband means is to save the poor first. My brother is waiting to get married now. Why don't we do it first? I said, who will pay for the mat and the mother-in-law? Or is your brother still here?

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Brother-in-law has a date, and he is his college classmate. In fact, the girl doesn't care about the bride price, but her parents don't agree. After all, it will cost10.2 million in the end. My brother-in-law is younger than my husband 10 years old, and my parents-in-law are farmers. It is really not easy to point to the little income from other places for their two children to go to school. My husband went to junior college and studied at my brother in Faguang University for six or seven years. My husband and I got married early. At that time, my mother-in-law only gave me 65438+ 1 as a bride price. At that time, I also lived with my in-laws in a bungalow in the village. Now I have struggled with my husband for many years and finally bought a house in the county, but I still have to pay the mortgage every month. My husband and I have a son and a daughter. My son went to primary school and my daughter went to junior high school. In fact, the burden is not small.

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At present, my brother-in-law has difficulty in getting married, so it is not appropriate for me as a sister-in-law not to help. But I heard from the girls that they got married and bought a house in the city. The mother-in-law took out all the only 6,543,800 yuan in her hand, and the woman paid most of the house price. The girl is the only child in the family, and her husband has two brothers here. Actually, she's a little interested in recruiting a son-in-law I thought, my brother-in-law and her girlfriend got married and left, went to the city to have fun and went to the world alone. I believe that few people will come back in the future. Isn't this in-laws pension for my husband and me? Therefore, I think about this 1.2 million bride price. I have no ability to pay for my mother-in-law, and I have no obligation and reason to pay for her.

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I don't agree to give the bride price, but my husband insists on messing with me. The husband said, "If you are the eldest sister-in-law, you should be more open-minded. My parents are over 70 years old. Who will lend them money? Are they still able to repay? My brother got married120,000. I'm in charge, so let's come out. If you don't agree, I will go out and borrow it! " Silly husband, your brother stayed in the city after getting married and can't come back to see your parents all the year round. Mother-in-law said well, she should be given old-age care in advance. Don't you think brother-in-law will come back to support her in the future? This is not all our business!

Finally, I didn't stop my husband. We gave our mother-in-law a bride price of 1.2 million, and our brother-in-law got married. I thought this120,000 was wasted from then on, but by the end of the year, my brother-in-law and sister-in-law came back, and my sister-in-law stuffed a big paper bag into my hand. Open it and see, it's 80 thousand yuan. My brother-in-law said to me, "Sister-in-law, thank you very much for holding our wedding. We didn't have any money when we graduated from college, and we couldn't afford more than 100 thousand. Now it's more than 10 thousand a month. This 80 thousand was saved by your brother and daughter-in-law, and the remaining 40 thousand will be returned to you next year. Don't worry! " After listening to my brother-in-law's words, my face suddenly turned red: "Well, what are people polite about?" Isn't it okay ... "