Views on the convergence of youth

Several principles to be followed in the communication between young people and old people.

After reading the above, some parents asked, "Do you need to prepare in advance? How to prepare? " Although you don't have to go to the young transition class, you must be prepared for the young transition. The more prepared parents are to help their children, the better their children will adapt to the first grade. To prepare, you need to follow the following principles:

(A) light content heavy interest.

Interest is the best teacher. No matter what preparations you want to make for your child to go to primary school, you should protect your child's inner longing and expectation. No matter what foundation you want to help children lay in their studies, you need to protect their interest in learning. Whether teaching children literacy, pinyin or mathematics, children should feel that learning this kind of thing is fun, not a burden.

There are several children in the class who are curious about the school and interested in what the teacher said, although they have never been to a young bridging class. I will listen carefully in every class, plus the teacher's daily evaluation and encouragement. Although the children are a little difficult at the beginning of their studies, they are not discouraged. On the contrary, the more they learn, the more excited they are. Especially after continuous progress through their own efforts, children's learning initiative is stronger. Therefore, before children go to school, parents can play up their primary school life more actively, and they must plant the seeds of expectation in their children's hearts.

(2) light knowledge, heavy habits.

In the process of connecting children, we should not give priority to instilling knowledge. Don't think that my child has learned pinyin, learned thousands of words and learned addition and subtraction within dozens. I think the child will be fine in the first grade. In fact, what really affects a child's primary school is not how much knowledge he has mastered, but what good habits he has developed before going to school. For example, some children like reading very much. Although he can't read completely independently, he has formed the habit of listening to stories and reading stories every night, so he won't study Chinese too hard at school, even if he hasn't attended a cram school. Some children form the habit of listening carefully in kindergarten, so that they can sit still and listen to it in primary school. There are also children who like thinking and are good at asking questions. Such children are active in thinking, and even if they may encounter some difficulties at the beginning of their first grade study, they can overcome them quickly.

(3) light form, heavy ability.

At present, there are still some educational institutions in the society that have grasped the parents' willingness to invest in education and often engage in some beautiful tricks to attract parents. I heard that some of them cultivate children's super memory, and some cultivate children's quick calculation ability. Some parents think that their children may become geniuses after attending such extracurricular classes. Perhaps, some children are suitable for this kind of education, but no matter what form of connection is adopted, parents should attach importance to the cultivation of children's ability.

The children are at school. Take care of yourself, study and get along with others? Some children have not attended any cram schools, but they are particularly easy to adapt. Because in the early family education and kindergarten education, many children have been able to do their own things, listen carefully to other people's speeches, and get along well with children. Compared with various forms of training and counseling, these abilities of children are useful for life.

Third, several aspects that children need to contact before going to school.

Grasp the above principles, and then face the problem of young convergence, we will have a direction, and there are several aspects that parents need to bring their children in advance.

(1) Too much time.

Generally, children who don't eat breakfast in kindergarten enter kindergarten between 8: 00 and 8: 30 in the morning, but after attending primary school, children have been sitting in the classroom at 8: 00 and started reading early. Kindergarten has a lunch break of about two hours at noon, but children start practicing at noon on 1: 30 in primary school. In kindergarten, the teaching content is relatively free, and the class can be more casual, but every child in primary school should insist on a class for 35 minutes.

In order to let children get up in the morning when they go to primary school, they must form the habit of going to bed early at night. If children don't have a good rest, it is difficult to keep enough energy in class. In order to ensure the quality of children's lectures in the afternoon class, try to let children take a nap in the afternoon. Some children don't sleep at noon, and some children who are just in grade one don't wake up after a nap. These all need the help of parents.

(2) the improvement of self-care ability.

When children go to kindergarten, there are usually three or four teachers in each class, including a life teacher. However, when children go to school, there is only one class teacher who gets along with them day and night. Up to now, there are still some first-grade children who can't tie their shoes. Therefore, children's basic self-care ability, such as dressing, wearing a hat, tying shoelaces and remembering to drink water, needs parents to consciously cultivate their children before going to school.

In kindergarten, children can bring schoolbags or not, and the contents are basically voluntary. It is enough to bring one or two books, a brush and a notebook, but it is different when you go to school. Children will have many subjects every day, and Chinese and mathematics will have related exercise books, so it is also important to teach children to pack their schoolbags and their own things. Some children in the class have been forgotten so far. Today, they will lose their papers tomorrow, and their desks will be a mess. Especially writing, because I am used to being sloppy, I write with dirty little hands and wipe them while writing. My homework is dirty and messy. The schoolbag is even more messy. Before each class, Bala needs textbooks in a messy bag. Therefore, if a child has no self-care ability, it will bring him a lot of unnecessary troubles in his primary school life.

(3) the formation of good habits.

Good habits affect a child's life. If children develop the habit of going to bed early and getting up early, the habit of listening attentively, the habit of reading books and the habit of thinking hard when encountering difficulties, then such children will be very comfortable in school and must be particularly adapted to primary school life. On the other hand, if children don't form a habit, then this is the most important thing that parents need to establish contact with their children.

Forget about living habits. Let's talk about how to develop study habits. Through observation, I found that all children who especially like reading have good attention and understanding. Reading can calm children's hearts; Reading can also make children understand many truths that they don't understand in a limited life; Reading is also one of the effective ways to cultivate children's attention.

Some parents asked me: "Children don't understand? What should I do? " At this time, I will ask him, "Are you teaching yourself?" "Have you ever read a story to your child?" They always shake their heads shyly. If parents never do or rarely do something, they must force their children to do it. How do children read?

Parent-child reading is a good way to promote children's reading. Every day after dinner, I hold picture books and story books with my children. Parents tell their children the content wholeheartedly, and the children observe the illustrations like playing. What a beautiful and harmonious picture this is. I think in a few days, parents will no longer let their children read books, but children will pester their parents to tell stories. In such a parent-child reading process, not only can the child's heart calm down, but also the child's concentration, imagination and expressiveness can be improved unconsciously.