Why are young people increasingly disgusted with "relatives"?

I think people don't like relatives now because, first, relatives always take advantage in the name of relatives; Second, relatives always feel that they belong to their own home, and they can say and do anything.

Let's talk about the first point. Many families are like this now. The whole family lives in the city. Those who live in remote villages or whose economic conditions are not as good as yours will come to eat and drink from time to time, ask your family to help and take your things without mercy. I have always felt that relatives are related by blood, and there is nothing wrong with a family being close and lively, but now many people's purposes have changed.

Take our family as an example. My grandparents came to work in the city very early, and their living conditions are very good. All three children have good jobs and good family financial conditions. Usually, parents and other elders will buy a lot of things for grandpa's family. My grandmother's brothers and sisters are all greedy people. It's a bit rude to say so, but it's true. They live in the countryside about 30 kilometers away from us and come once a month on average. When they come, they will bring some steamed bread dishes cooked at home, but after they come, they will ask my aunt to buy their designated type of wine and let my mother cook some kind of fish they like and not eat anything else. And when you leave, be sure to prepare tea and wine for him. If he lacks one, he will lose his temper. If it weren't for grandma's face, I'd like to turn against him.

If you only have requirements for food, forget it. The Laoshan green stone my father bought for my grandmother looked good at home, so my uncle and grandfather had to take it back to his house. My father couldn't buy him a smaller one, but he accepted. He took it out on holidays, saying that my father was stingy and took away everything grandma added every year.

Second, after all, relatives are only relatives, not grandparents or parents. Don't always educate your children. You have to study hard, you have to find someone quickly, you have to have children quickly, or you will get old. Be reasonable. My parents don't care so much about my private affairs. If it's just nagging, I can accept it as they care about me, but just seeing a Weibo last night makes me very uneasy.

Bloggers keep cats. His aunt came to Beijing for a trip and stayed at their home. She said that she didn't like his cat and that she would throw it away sooner or later. They didn't take it seriously. As a result, one day the blogger came home from work and found that the cat was really gone. My aunt insisted that she had given them away. The next day, she went back to her hometown by train and didn't answer the phone. Under the pressure of the blogger's family, she said that she had thrown away the cat. The blogger said she couldn't find them anywhere. There are too many relatives who take themselves too seriously and make their own decisions. Now, including me, I hate so-called relatives more and more. Many people say that some relatives are not as good as friends now, and I think it's quite right.