When do you think people are most helpless?

When people suddenly feel most helpless, they should be dying and powerless to themselves.

Our neighbor, an old lady, lives with her son and daughter-in-law and keeps herself clean every day. Since our family moved here for more than ten years, I have always felt that she is like this, dressed in plain cotton-padded jacket, with gray hair and kind smile. She never seems to have changed. She goes to this house every day, chats there and helps to take care of her great-grandchildren. But this Tuesday, when she knocked on my door, she appeared in front of me, with one hand on crutches and the other hand covering her eyes (wrapped in gauze). Then she urgently asked me to call my mother. My mother was sleeping, and then I asked her to come in and sit down. She may be my mother, and she said with a little cry that she should call her son quickly. Then my mother came down and was anxious to call me. What should I do, what should I do ... "This summer, I don't know how the old lady fell and lay in bed for many days. After gradually recovering, she stayed on crutches and never left her body. I went to her house the other day and found that her left eye was covered with gauze and hung with water. I thought her legs and feet were inconvenient. Today, she pinned all her hopes on my mother, so helpless, whispered in a trembling voice that her eyes hurt, what to do, and then took my mother's hand to show me her eyes. It wasn't a knock, and I don't know why her eyes are swollen. Suddenly I feel that time is still so cruel and heartless, which makes a person so helpless and helpless to himself.

Let me change my mind. The most helpless time for people is that the years have left a deep mark on you, making you old and losing the ability to make changes. Even if a person wanders, he can't find someone to talk to, he has no money to eat, and his work pressure is great. Many times, when you are alone, you will feel helpless, but you still have the strength to stand up, keep on running, and find someone who can accompany you to overcome this sense of helplessness. However, when a person's legs and feet are inconvenient, disheveled and can't do anything, that kind of helplessness. Finally, I wish you all a safe journey on Christmas Eve and remember to eat more apples.

Old ink can't make chicken soup, tell the truth!

Now who is not Xian Yi, old and young, and everyone has to fight for it?

There will inevitably be troubles and setbacks in life. If you don't face them, nothing will change!

It is a luxury to have someone to accompany you when you are in trouble, let alone fight together. In the end, you have to face it yourself.

Feng Xin, the boss of Storm Video, once said: How do I know what is strong? I only know how to persist!

Although you are helpless and confused now, bite your teeth and you will survive! I have always believed that as long as I persist, things will get better. Anyway, there is nothing worse than now.

Seeing this problem, I can't help but want to share my helpless experience.

When I was completely defeated, my wife left cruelly, and my brothers and friends around me parted ways. I am very sad and sad. Although there are no tears in my eyes, my heart is bleeding. I prayed to heaven at that time, but it was useless. Ask for land, and the land should not be. Asking for help, people ignore it. Life at that time was dark and terrible for me. However, in this day without sunshine and years without direction, I persisted. In the process of persistence, I also want to give up several times, put down all the burdens on my shoulders and secretly leave this world. However, for the sake of my elderly parents and young children, I finally gave up my plan to commit suicide. As a man, he must shoulder the responsibility and responsibility. Even if the sky falls, he can't fall, let alone run away. A gentleman should bravely face setbacks and adversity. God, if you want to kill me, I admit it. If life wants to crush me, there is no way ... I persisted and now I live a simple and plain life. Although I don't have the scenery of the past, I have learned to be content and know happiness. In my life, I have lonely and depressed times. I can insist, and I'm sure you can. Finally, I wish everyone a smooth and safe life.

Take two more tissues and lift the quilt. I'm still the optimist who jumps on a stretcher with one leg in a plaster and can flirt with doctors, teachers and brothers.

Research shows that at dusk, evening and night, people's emotions are most likely to fluctuate and their psychological defense lines are most likely to be broken.

So I told myself to wait until dawn.

Waiting for the next morning, another fearless positive energy player.

When all the blows, whether psychological or physical, hit in a short time, the speed of self-healing can't keep up.

I am homesick. Want to go home.

But I want to go home with good news when I am healthy and alive.

Well, smoke the last tissue, make sure it's the last one.

Growing up in a remote mountainous area of Sichuan, I was a left-behind child when I was a child. Our family used to be poor, poor, and experienced some changes. My father has two sons, my brother and I, and my brother died unexpectedly when I was a freshman (so I attached great importance to family later). In the third year of high school, my father suffered a comminuted fracture of his feet (of course, it was finally cured, thanks to Hangzhou Fuyang Orthopedic Hospital, which is one of the important reasons why I insisted on leaving the small county to settle in the big city). I can't work for more than a year. My father has no job, and my mother has to take care of my father. What saddens me most when I grow up is that I stayed in the hospital for a long time when my father's feet were shattered. My roommates are all locals, and many people go to see them, while our foreigners, relatives and friends are not here. I feel very miserable. At that time, my dad was a small contractor, and it was not easy to get paid after the accident. My father stood on crutches and said to the boss, "My master is a classmate of the mayor of Hangzhou, and I am not afraid that you will not give money." When I got home, I asked my dad, is this true? Why haven't I heard you say it before? My dad said he made it up himself, but he was afraid he wouldn't get the money. It doesn't matter how many setbacks and difficulties you have experienced, but you can't help crying every time you think about it. Therefore, if I am not strong, my parents have nothing to look forward to. If I don't work hard, my parents will suffer for life. If I don't work hard, my children will have endless pain, just like when I was a child. Later, I read a master's degree in a single-minded school. What needs to be emphasized is that I don't like people telling me that "the prodigal son will never change his money." Damn it, I didn't learn badly at all. My parents took me from my hometown to Hangzhou and entered the school for migrant children. That school is so bad, I really want to buy it and raise pigs!

From technical secondary school to junior college, to university, to postgraduate entrance examination, people who have not experienced it will not understand, and they will encounter too many supercilious eyes, doubts and cynicism! I just want to say, thank everyone in my life, thank those who have helped me, I have never forgotten, thank those who have looked down on me. You made me stronger. In order to describe the story more sadly, I will tell you what I have done in chronological order: selling breakfast, selling fruit, picking up coke bottles, moving bricks, delivering takeout, restaurant waiter, repairing mobile phones, programmers, university teachers (without any exaggeration or forgery). Of course, I think being a teacher is not as fun as being a programmer, and my income is not as high as that of a programmer (although teachers are my mother-in-law's favorite occupation), so I worked hard in an IT company. Now, I am very cheerful, proud of my parents, and my family conditions are much better than before (people who don't know think I am short and rich). Speaking of what I have suffered before, I have no feeling. After much experience, I feel that everything is a trivial matter.