Suggest that you don't want to live with your mother-in-law, because you don't want to live with her.

My husband and I have been married 10 years. At the beginning, in order to gain a foothold in big cities, we patched things together and paid a down payment to buy a house. Since then, we have lived a life of earning money and repaying loans, without the sweetness of the previous period.

I gave birth to my eldest son at my parents' house, so maternity leave is also at my parents' house. My parents help me take care of the children. After maternity leave, I have to go to work, because my mother has not retired and can't take care of our children, so my mother-in-law came and began to live with her mother-in-law from now on.

During these four years, although I lived in a house with three bedrooms and two halls, I felt a little free only when I returned to my bedroom, because my mother-in-law always gossiped and we didn't speak the same language, which made me feel very depressed. This kind of depression, if I have a similar experience, will certainly understand. Sometimes I would rather work overtime in the company than go home every day, even if I go home, I will take my children into the house and not come out.

People with different living habits really can't live together. All kinds of accumulated trivial matters made me put forward this demand to my husband more than a year ago. I am not a quarrelsome person, so I always swallow everything. When I felt unbearable, I asked my husband about this need. I said at least five times: let's see if we can get your mother back, whether to travel or rest at home, and we'll pay for it. I just wish there were three people in my family. Every time my husband says yes, I'll talk to her later, but every time it goes away. I don't want to embarrass my husband, so I have to endure it for another year.

Finally, I couldn't stand it anymore, so I asked my husband to let his mother go back to her hometown once, but this time he seemed impatient, thinking that her son would definitely speak better than me. I just don't want to live with his mother, and I don't have any hatred for his mother, but what my husband did next chilled me.

I saw my husband yelling at me: ok, I'll say it and let her go. Then she walked towards the damn house, only to hear that Xiaoli didn't want to live with you. You go, and then she slammed the door and went out.

At this time, my mother-in-law's room is particularly quiet. When I arrived the next morning, I found my mother-in-law had left. I don't know what happened, but I was not happy about it at all.

Although the result is what I originally wanted, it has completely deteriorated.

I thought my husband could talk calmly with my mother-in-law, but I didn't expect him to say so directly and simply, and somehow he seemed to have completely sold me out.

Did I make it myself? Don't want to live with your mother-in-law? I don't want to live an uncomfortable and depressed life.

How should I continue the rest of my life?