Becoming the true self is the most real desire of the soul.

Be yourself, live a wonderful life,

This is the greatest contribution we can make to the world.

It's also the best for you.

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Being yourself is the truest desire of the soul.

Have you found the following problems:

When we are unhappy, we neither want to join others' happiness, nor allow others to be so happy.

For example, you grew up in a family with the concept of "son preference", and you were taught from an early age that it is bad and unfortunate to be a woman. Women are not as good as men, so women have to pay and suffer. Then when you have a daughter, you will educate her in this way and make her suffer the same or more pains. You will not allow her to enjoy the happiness and freedom as a woman.

Or: If you were often beaten when you went out to play as a child, you will not allow your child to go out to play when you grow up, and you will beat him-because you are treated like this, you will treat others like this.

If we fail to be ourselves, the consequences will be terrible: we are covered with bondage, restraint, restriction and resistance, and we will project these problems on all people, things and things. We will not allow people, things and things beyond our concepts to exist, but we will constantly criticize and control them.

Our biggest task in this life is to be ourselves and live high. This is the greatest contribution we can make to the world and the best thing.

Only when you become yourself and you are truly free, happy and happy can you freely and naturally allow others to be free, happy and happy.

A person who becomes himself and lives a noble life is full of permission and freedom, happiness and harmony. He will allow everything around him to happen freely, because he has been living in himself and is extremely happy.

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How to be yourself?

When you start to "perceive", you can break the bondage!

Who am I?

This is the most important question, but most people don't know how simple it is.

Observe the way you interact with people and situations, and don't resist and respond. When you are familiar with this process, you will become more and more aware of your thoughts, opinions and judgments, then keep your distance from them and stay calm in every situation.

When you can observe without labeling any situation as good or bad, you can set yourself free.

We are perfect ourselves!

However, thoughts, beliefs, opinions and judgments are imperfect, which interfere with and limit our procedures and memories. At every moment of our lives, they enter our consciousness through society and our experiences.

When we begin to realize that we are not just a "memory", we can begin to observe, and gradually we will no longer be bound by "limitation" and "result" and return to the original perfect state.

Unfortunately, the most common way we operate is to assume that I am "memory", and I am what they say, and I am too bad to change.

We have become something according to the external environment and family education, and believe that this is what we are.

As a result, we let our education, environment and external factors define our cognition. I have changed myself beyond recognition, and even lost myself.

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Learn to really appreciate yourself.

When you begin to appreciate yourself, all good things will come back to you.

In order to discover our connection with divinity and inner peace, we need to return to reality and know that we have everything.

This will also make us become ourselves and begin to exist in trust and inspiration, where all the perfect moments will come back to us.

Without exception, when you no longer define yourself according to your external environment, you will receive more things you can't imagine.

Once you return to your nature and begin to appreciate yourself, people will appreciate you more. People will know you through your love and respect you and your confidence.

Their recognition of you has nothing to do with your academic qualifications, nor with your ownership, but only with you.

This method is simple and logical. Once you start to release yourself, you will notice that you don't need to say too much to people. They have begun to ask you curiously, "What have you done to yourself? What did you do? You look a little different, as if you are much younger! "

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When you become yourself, you will allow others.

Marianne williamson once said, "Our deepest fear is not because of our lack. On the contrary, our deepest fears exist because we are extremely powerful. What makes us extremely afraid is not our darkness, but the light. "

We often ask ourselves: How can I be smart, elegant, wise and great? Actually, why don't we? You are the son of heaven, and your self-esteem will make you unable to contribute to the world.

It is foolish to shrink yourself just to make people around you feel more secure!

We were born to show the glory of heaven, and this glory lies in us, not only in some people, but in everyone.

When we let our inner light shine, we will automatically allow others to do the same.

When we are liberated from our fear of ourselves, our appearance will also liberate others.

When you become yourself, you enjoy inner freedom, happiness and harmony, and you will allow others.

Be themselves.

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Learn to "clean yourself up"

It may be difficult at first, but once you have the experience of awareness, that is, you return to the zero state (no opinions, judgments and expectations), you will often want to return to that state, even if it is just an epiphany.

The more you practice, the easier it is to stay alert.

The next memory starts playing again, which will force you to realize in a short time. Because of this, you must give yourself the next chance to continue practicing awareness and be yourself.

Gradually, you will feel as free as a child, only observing and appreciating the mystery of life. At a certain stage, it is easier to stay awake and be yourself than not to be awake.

Once you start practicing, your body and mind will remember that feeling, and this feeling will often come to you, which is natural. Let go of things that don't belong to you, and you will always be in a state of peace and happiness.

Remember: the sense of security and happiness you seek does not exist in the material, education and relationships you have. This is easier than you think.

There is absolutely nothing external to make you more complete and perfect. Anything you think is necessary now and can be obtained from the outside world can only make you feel excited for a short time.

This is just an attachment, which will disappear sooner or later, or make you lose interest in them gradually, and you may get hurt.

Now, release yourself!

Believe that you have everything you need and you don't need anything else. Let go and let the part of your heart that knows you best guide and protect you. Return to the perfect you, and you will find out where heaven is and everything you need.

Where are they all? It's inside you!