Children's awards are plastered all over the wall, will they become conceited or even conceited?

Children's awards are plastered all over the wall, will they become conceited or even conceited? Most parents have good expectations for their students, hoping that they will achieve excellent results and develop in an all-round way, which will be affirmed by teachers and classmates. Award certificate is another name for honor and recognition. In the final stage, teachers will award certificates to students who have performed well and achieved outstanding results. If students are not praised for a certain subject, they will regret for two or three days. Although the school still continues the tradition of issuing certificates at the end of the term, its characteristics and "recognition" are completely different. Even with the accumulation of award-winning certificates, the smiles on mom and dad's faces are getting weaker and weaker. What's going on here?

The awards of primary school students are "all over the wall", but parents can't laugh at it at all. In order to let children "win at the starting line", parents are doing their best to help their children get better teaching resources, and there are no fewer interest classes and training institutions. Although parents want their children to get excellent grades, there is no doubt that they can get praise from teachers by their strength, but sometimes it backfires. I went to a friend's house to keep warm, and found that the award certificate of the class 6 collective children in their family was "plastered all over the wall", completely like an "excellent student". However, when everyone is praising their children's excellent academic performance, their good friends, as parents, can't laugh at all, and even bluntly say that this is "a wall that abandoned printing paper", so this award-winning certificate might as well be abandoned.

Why is this happening? Unexpectedly, although the children of colleagues are clever and obedient, these award certificates are not obtained through excellent results, but more often they are "stars of civilization", "stars of progress" and "stars of etiquette" in the eyes of parents. And many of them are award-winning certificates issued by counseling institutions. Together, they are not like an honor, but like encouragement piled up with money. For a good friend, the award certificate of this whole wall looks "magnificent", but it is worthless. In contrast, we can't put all our energy into improving children's academic performance.

There are advantages and disadvantages for students with low recognition. From the parents' point of view, this new type of award-winning certificate is inexplicably written in English, which has no obvious relationship with the students' grades, and the recognition is pitifully low. In the eyes of students, this kind of award-winning certificate is "heavy" regardless of the size, and each one is obtained through unremitting struggle. Even some new award certificates of "Etiquette Star" and "Civilization Star" have confirmed the bright spots of students, which have been discovered and recognized by teachers, and have positive significance in encouraging and praising students, and also played a correct role in treating students with correct values.