How to chat with the person I have a crush on? I never know what topic to talk about.

In the winter afternoon, the sunshine was pretty good, and I just finished cleaning up. And I happen to be in that mood right now, so I thought of writing something to you. I wonder if you guys are getting better at picking up girls these days.

Let’s talk to you today. No matter what, in this era where mobile phones are everywhere, many people socialize in software. If you want to get girls, you must have a Only the ability to chat coquettishly is enough.

But precisely, the truly coquettish chat ability is simple. This is what I want to tell you today.

I guess there are a lot of guys who are in a rather awkward position when it comes to understanding how to pick up girls. They seem to be a little bit more proficient and a bit more flirtatious than the kind of pure and nice guy, but let him really chase after one, and then chase her again. Less than. Their chats often seem very ambiguous, provocative, and seemingly coquettish, but in fact they are all too pretentious. In fact, any normal girl will not like a man who shows off. For many girls, they don't like the kind of chatting method that looks very coquettish in form. Chatting simply will never go wrong. After all, true coquettishness comes from the heart, not from words.

Many guys don’t like to use the words “what are you doing” because they think it’s too monotonous and is the kind of thing only good old men would use. In fact, the four words "What are you doing?" are very easy to use. I have used them many times and think they are pretty good. Whether it is the opening or the middle, you can use these four words wherever you want, but don't always use "What are you doing"? You have to understand that chatting, most of the time, relies on fragments, not single sentences. One sentence cannot determine anything. Only by talking about the entire fragment can some feelings and information be conveyed. For beginners, it is safest and most comfortable for you to chat simply. But if you want to make a girl awesome, you can't just stay in a simple state. In other words, in fact, any single form that lasts too long is inappropriate.

Simplicity is just the foundation. It does not mean that the decoration, style or culture of your building are simple. Then there will be no highlights. Although it is safe, it is useless because it is not offensive.

So, if you have just started to learn to pick up girls, chatting simply is the main line. You don’t need to think about other things. First, learn how to communicate with girls in a simple way. But to become awesome, on top of simplicity, there must be a lot of embellishments, such as some highlights, cute points, turning points, climaxes or critical hits, etc. This requires some skill.

Let me give you a demonstration:

Me: What are you doing?

Female: Listening to music

Actually, here, The first reaction of many buddies is to listen to some music and so on. Anyway, they like to chat in a topical direction, and in the end it becomes like a reporter interviewing. Can you be a little innovative? Simplicity and boring are two different things. We don’t necessarily have to approach it from the perspective that everyone would think of. For example, it can be like this:

Me: I am listening to the songs you listen to

In this case, the girl will be a little curious, Girl: How do you know what songs I listen to. She will usually have this reaction. You have to know that girls are lazy in chatting and basically follow her first reaction. Because she is being chased by you, she can enjoy the benefits of not having to use her brain and effort.

In this way, there is a point that can be moved. But at this point, some guys who think they are picking up girls are about to jump out. They usually reply angrily: Because I am in your heart, because we are in touch with each other and so on. It’s actually awkward to talk like this. If you want to talk like this, it will basically collapse after just a few more words. So, stop driving so often, let’s keep it simple. You know, truly good driving skills cannot be seen from the technical component.

Me: I just imagined that we would have one earphone per person on the subway.

This kind of sentence is more imaginative and will always keep you slightly offensive. Then you can tell a lot from the girl's reaction next. If she replies: Come less. In fact, it is a good feeling. If she replies: Haha, you are thinking too much. Then it's easy to talk. Of course, her reaction was normal, like: Uh. It's also possible. But it doesn't matter, just be yourself. Chat and try to be as relaxed as possible.

Actually, that’s about it. I didn’t want to continue talking, but many buddies wanted me to give some demonstrations before, so let me give you some guidance. I will talk about all the above three situations. Let me show it to you.

Me: I just imagined that we would have one earphone per person on the subway.

Female: Come on.

Me: How about this weekend, let’s make our fantasy come true.

Me: I just imagined that we would have one earphone per person on the subway.

Female: Haha, you are thinking too much.

Me: Why do you look so happy?

Me: I just imagined that we would have one earphone per person on the subway.

Female: Uh.

Me: Allow me to think so.

That's about it. If you break it down into each sentence, you can see that the sentence structure is actually relatively simple. There is no sentence like "an old driver drives a car", but there is no sentence that is talking. topic. Now let's combine it casually.

Me: What are you doing

Female: Listening to music

Me: I am listening to the song you are listening to

Female: How do you know what songs I listen to?

Me: I just imagined that we would be on the subway, each with one earphone.

Female: Come on

Me: How about this weekend, let’s make our fantasy come true

You can see that after being combined into a fragment, the whole is simple and offensive. The first invitation appeared in about three sentences of dialogue, which also reflects what I said about picking up girls quickly.

So how can you have such a simple yet offensive chat ability. Just read more books and make your imagination, innovation, and adaptability stronger and you'll be good to go. As I said at the beginning, picking up girls is ultimately an understanding of life and a way of life. If you can actively live and learn to see the world, you will naturally be good at picking up girls. Feelings flow, love is a lifelong matter.