When children ask for money, parents with high emotional intelligence know how to respond in these four ways.

When a child asks you for money, if you don't respond correctly, it may directly hurt the child's heart and even cause a long-term shadow in the child's heart!

Then let's talk about four incorrect coping styles and what parents with high emotional intelligence often do.

I've known Chichiwa and Qian Qian all day ... why haven't I seen you so eager to learn? Sometimes there are even some personal insults. If you can't do anything, you won't have enough to eat. All you know is that you need money every day, and you are a useless person! And so on, such a response will severely hit children, and even lead to rebellion, which can no longer be corrected, and is often planted by these small seeds!

Mom is short of money recently. What happened to our family? Now we can't get the money! If you cry poverty on purpose, your child will feel that you don't love him enough. Why? Since he asks you for money, he knows that you must have money, but you still have to cry to him that you don't have much money, which may leave a very negative impression on your child in the end.

For example, if a child used to ask for money and didn't do business properly, or stole money at home, you can start picking on the child's black history. You once asked me for money. Tell me what to do. How did you get the money? How dare you ask for money now? You turn black history.

It will be particularly easy to form a shadow on the child, and he will think that this is a black account stain that can never be thrown away!

Some parents start with a reproachful tone when their children ask for money. Why do you need money again Didn't I just give it to you the other day? Where have they all gone? This is your preconceived idea. Sometimes because of busy work, I forget that it was a long time ago that I gave money to my children last time. You think you just gave it, but it has already been spent.

Your reproach will make the child never ask you for it again, and he doesn't want to tell you anything, because he thinks that you don't understand him and it is easy to lead him astray!

These are the four most common ways for parents to ask their children for money. Next, I will talk to you about how parents with high emotional intelligence should deal with it correctly. Give everyone four steps of advice!

If you ask your child why he wants to use the money, but the child can't say it, you probably know that he must have something on his mind. His eyes keep flashing, which proves that he is lying to you. Then you might as well let the other person's mentality slow down and try to be friends with him. You will certainly help each other, but I still hope that the other party can be sincere to you and understand the truth of the last thing.

Wouldn't it be better if you took the opportunity to let your children learn how to behave and do things?

Some things, by asking your child, he may tell you: "My friend has a birthday, and I want to buy him a nice present at his birthday party." Well, after understanding this purpose, we must find ways to teach children how to spend money meaningfully.

You will at least let your children know that solving a problem may involve some costs in all aspects, and how much should I reserve in advance to play this role. In fact, this is to make children spend more money!

How to do more with less money and do things without spending money? Let children develop this kind of thinking from an early age, which is actually the direction that every boss often thinks about, just like the boss often asks employees three questions: Why do you want to apply for funds to do this? What is the purpose of doing this? In order to achieve this goal, can we do more with less money and do things without spending money?

Let him think of a better way to do things, and finally mention how to do things with less money and no money, while ensuring the realization of the goal. With these three sentences, a company can save a lot of costs, as well as communicating with children. Let the other party learn how to solve a big problem with low cost and create greater value!

Let every child's spending become an investment, an investment that can get greater returns in the future!

For example, a child wants to buy a piano.

Then forget it, there is no need to buy it in this situation!

Well, if the child can't do it in the future, at least you will have some restrictions, some constraints and some punishments for him, so that the child can develop a habit of making decisions carefully!