Tell me about women who have an influence on me.

When I think about this topic, I feel that there are endless words. Compared with men who can't think of it at once, women have a great influence on me.

When I was a child, because my parents were away all the year round, I spent more time with my uncle menstruation, so it was menstruation who first influenced me, not my mother. Aunt and uncle are the oldest in their own family, so this family has become the backbone of the two families, and almost everything will be decided by them. As the head of the village, my uncle is also very enterprising, and the whole family naturally falls on my aunt. The advantages of traditional women are vividly reflected in my sister-in-law. What is even more rare is that my sister also has the characteristics of women in the new era. She is not only a good wife and mother, but also a cook of her uncle, and at the same time, she handles the affairs of two big families in an orderly way. These aspects were admired and admired in my childhood eyes.

The year when I came back from the northwest and started studying was the beginning of officially following my aunt. As soon as I got home, I got a pimple on my leg for no reason. Someone pointed out that it was because a sweet potato cellar was dug behind my house. My aunt and uncle took me everywhere to find a doctor, because it is winter, and I can't ride a bike or walk when it snows. My aunt and uncle took turns carrying me, which still made me warm. My reaction at that time was to go home, and I followed my aunt wherever she went. It can be said that menstruation was my first female idol. Menstruation's concrete influence on me is reflected in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I have lived in my aunt's house for many years, watching everyone get along with their parents-in-law, and taking good care of their diet and daily life, including their thoughts. At that time, I had a cognition that there is no bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. This cognition has always influenced me. Until now, I feel that I have verified menstruation's influence with my actions.

Although I haven't had much contact with my second aunt since I was a child, my second aunt's capable image has a deep influence on me. My second aunt has been doing business outside. Every time she appears before our eyes, she looks like an intellectual and capable woman. At that time, I longed to be such a woman. After many years, although not exactly the same, but walking in this direction.

I have to say that my mother has influenced me, but I sincerely feel that I have escaped a lot of my mother's influence by virtue of my daughter's special identity. Mother's strength and pain are distressing, but I don't recognize her attitude and coping style towards life. I have been living in two tangled emotions before college. Fortunately, in the winter of senior three, I have a new understanding of mother and maternal love. At that time, I wrote many pages through words, venting everything about my mother and maternal love, thus reinterpreting my mother. After that, my understanding and views on my mother became dialectical unity. Although my mother is still my mother, I am not who I used to be. My mother's greatest influence on me should be this growth and change. Whether it is behavioral or spiritual independence, it is the mother's personality that gives birth.

The mothers of the three people mentioned above, that is, grandmothers, also have a great influence on me. Grandpa left everyone when he was very young, and grandma took her six children through hardships step by step to happiness. When I was young, my grandmother was the commander and anchor of a group of children, and she also took care of us. Since childhood, grandma is also a compatible existence between tradition and the new era. My grandmother fell ill during the winter vacation of my freshman year, and my grandmother's spirit of fighting the disease in the next ten years deeply influenced me. My grandmother's strength and wisdom fully accord with my definition of old people. I am proud that I have such a grandmother. I'm glad I followed my grandmother when I was a child. I thank her for her unconditional trust and support in my marriage choice.

Tian teacher is the teacher who has the greatest influence on my writing. Tian teacher has big eyes and long hair, and has a gentle little girl character. My initial interest in writing was the result of my teacher's admiration for the writing style of two great gods in my class in the third grade. When I was a freshman, I was lucky enough to know tian teacher. She unexpectedly liked my writing and encouraged me to write with my classmates. With her encouragement, I tried to write different words. During that time, I wrote many so-called modern poems. It was under her guidance that I became a loyal friend of the diary. Tian teacher not only guided me to run freely on the road of writing, but also gave me a lot of confusion in my mind. When I entered a new environment, my personality changed greatly, and I was not completely plunged into darkness because of tian teacher's unique care. It can be said that tian teacher raised a red sun for me at that time, shining on me shivering and pulling me out of the whirlpool of sadness to some extent. After the upgrade, under the guidance of the new Chinese teacher, Xinhua Cup won many awards. Although the instructor's name is not tian teacher, I know in my heart that this is the credit of tian teacher.

I want to talk about women who are far away from me. Soong Ching Ling, Bi Shumin, Bing Xin, San Mao and Moline Casey have had different influences on me in different times. Although I can't face them face to face, I see the power belonging to women through their words and deeds, which makes me feel and behave differently.

Finally, a woman who has a great influence on my thinking and behavior is my daughter Trickle. Before Juanjuan was born, I knew I would love her very much and I would try my best to create good conditions for her, but I didn't expect her arrival to change me at all. The first three months of being with me day and night have a little influence on me. I'm afraid of animals. That kind of fear made me afraid to hear its name and see its figure. My reaction will scare people around me who are not afraid. For a moment, watching the sleepy trickle, I was thinking, if one day I met a snake with the trickle, what should I do if I was afraid? Should I let the trickle rush ahead to protect me? Obviously I won't allow it. After thinking about it, I'm not so scared. When I heard the name again and saw the pictures and videos, my reaction was not as intense as before. Besides, before Juanjuan was born, I was afraid to face my father's departure, as if I would never come back without facing my father. But after the role change, I understood my father and faced up to this case that has been precipitated for nearly 20 years. With the support of teenagers, I began to promote the implementation of the case after I went to work. After a year of unremitting efforts, I finally closed the case, which is an account for my parents and myself. At this time, I can gently think of my father, think of the little things I get along with him, expect to meet him in my dream, and naturally mention him. More importantly, I can finally miss him generously and without sadness on Father's Day. Thanks to my daughter, my little baby. Trickle-down affects me much more than that. As a novice mother, I need to learn too much. I thank Didi for choosing me as her mother and for her influence and change.

Both traditional women and women in the new era have always held up half the sky in society. We are "women are weak, mothers are strong", we are "out of the hall, out of the kitchen", we are brave in chasing dreams and trying to soar!

Miao was written on June 22nd, 20021year.