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How can I communicate with my parents? Thank you, everyone.

In recent contacts with peers who have learned to communicate with their parents on an equal footing since childhood, we found that many "rich children" have far more inferiority complex than "ordinary children". This sense of self-pity is neither from friends around us nor from social pressure, but entirely from their powerful parents. The biggest difference between a "rich kid" with low self-esteem and a "rich kid" with healthy mentality is communication with his parents. For example, the Xiang brothers (not to mention the company) obviously communicate with their parents very well, and their parents also give a small amount of support to make their own enterprises develop healthily. And those "rich children" who are more "rebellious" or "competitive" with their parents are often those who turn around and leave without saying three words to their parents. The biggest reason lies not in oneself, but in parents. The biggest manifestation is that no matter how well they do, parents will say that they are useless. Because parents don't recognize their children, how can they recognize their things (no matter how big you do, you can't surpass your parents' career in a short time)? "Rebellion" and "competition" are very harmful to mental health, and the long-term result is that both children and parents lose. No parents want their children to be rubbish. In my opinion, parents, out of goodwill, hope to adopt a "provocative" way to improve their children. They have formed the habit of criticizing all the year round. It is the stupidest behavior to educate children to be "provocative" when their parents say that they are useless. To put it bluntly, no matter whether parents have good intentions or not, such parents really have shit in their heads (no matter how successful their careers are). I always think: children are poor and parents are bad! This is the unshirkable responsibility of parents. It is also an opportunity to challenge children. Rich children who have such opportunities should cherish this opportunity. You don't have to consider your parents' problems or your own, but how to communicate with your parents equally. How to bravely and unabashedly communicate your thoughts and feelings with your parents, so as to get equal communication in the future and let your parents know the real us again. This is a challenge. Although I find this situation more common among "rich children", I think most families in China have similar problems between generations. Get parents' approval: start with equal communication and true self! Only when you learn to communicate with your parents on an equal footing and learn to communicate your true inner thoughts and feelings can a person's mental model really unfold. This is a problem, and it is also an opportunity and challenge to challenge yourself to become a better person. Although the media like to pursue young entrepreneurs who started from scratch, because it has more reference significance for the media and the public, I think it is necessary to give a correct judgment to young people who inherited their father's business, because it is not less difficult to inherit a multi-billion-dollar enterprise than entrepreneurs who started from scratch. It is very difficult for more and more young people to make their careers in by going up one flight of stairs after inheriting their parents' careers. I suggest those parents who have money and jobs to study the Lee Kum Kee family and read their book The Power of Thought and People, which will help you, because I know that no one wants to be called "nouveau riche" by others, and the best way to change this name is to train the next generation. Enterprises can be so big. I want to raise children, but it depends on whether you want to do it or not.