What should I prepare for my daughter's wedding and my mother's tearful farewell?

0 1. My college roommate got married on National Day this year, and the wedding date is scheduled for the fifth day of October.

Two weeks ago, her mother sent a message telling her to go home when she was free at the weekend. She wants to spend more time with her and celebrate her birthday when she is not married.

She said, "This is the last birthday your mother can give you before you get married. When you get married, your husband will give it to you. "

At that time, she looked at the text message and burst into tears. It turns out that the mother, who is usually not talkative, loves herself so deeply.

She is a child who grew up in a single-parent family. In recent years, her mother's life alone has been particularly difficult.

When she was 0/0 years old, her father abandoned her mother and left with another woman. Her mother didn't have a high degree, so she went to the factory to work as a coolie for others. She did all kinds of dirty work to bring her up.

But I have never seen her complain. Watching herself grow up day by day, she felt that how much effort she had made was worth it.

Women are weak, but mothers are strong. From the day the child was born, she had a soft spot for her, happy for her and sad for her. In this life, she is full of eyes.

Because of this, she never considered marrying far away.

Every daughter who marries far away is a child lost by her parents. What if mother marries far away?

On her birthday, her mother gave her a necklace as a gift. Her mother said, "The necklace is the closest place to her heart. If you have a bad day, I will definitely feel it, and I will come to you then. "

Hearing this sentence, she suddenly wanted to cry again.

When I went back to my room at night, I opened the necklace box and found a letter under it, which was my mother's handwriting.

It says:

Daughter, you are getting married in more than two months. My mother is happy for you, but she feels very sad.

Happy because you are about to enter the next stage of your life and start your own family, sad because your mother can't always be with you and protect you.

I always have nightmares these days, dreaming that your married life is not smooth and you are bullied by your husband's family. Then I struggled to wake up and my heart was broken.

In this life, only you, you live well, is my lifelong wish.

I won't allow others to bully you at any time. This will always be your home. If you are in a bad mood, you must come back. I've been here. Just like when I was a child, as soon as you called me, I would come and never go far.

I feel guilty for not giving you a complete family. I hope that after you get married, you must remember one thing, learn to love yourself first, and then love others.

A person who doesn't even love himself won't love you.

At this point, I hope you can be selfish, selfish enough to always put yourself first, take care of yourself first, become excellent and independent, and then love your husband and your children.

Only when a woman loves herself is the beginning of lifelong romance, and only by herself is the source of lifelong security.

Even if you get married, I still hope you can remember this. Men may betray you, but you won't improve your ability for these years.

Your strength, your independence, your maturity and your reason all belong to you.

Only in this way can you have the confidence to face the unknown variables, and only in this way can you seize the initiative of marriage, live an open and strong life and not let others take advantage of others' danger.

Remember, love yourself before loving others. It is a lifelong lesson for women to love themselves.

In marriage, women are most afraid of taking men and marriage as their life.

After reading this letter, she was in tears.

Mom is right, everyone in this world may betray you, but your ability will not. As long as a woman loves herself, she will not live passively.

It was because my mother didn't realize this that she lost her marriage.

At that time, she quit her job and became her full-time wife wholeheartedly. She loves her children, her man, her family more than herself, so that when her father betrayed her later, she was unprepared.

If she spends some time with herself, she won't leave herself with no way out.

People will change, but no matter how they change, as long as you have strength, you don't need to panic. If you love your woman, you can live with confidence.