What should I prepare to make my in-laws like me?

It is inevitable that many daughters-in-law stay away from their mother-in-law. But for the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who live under the same roof, hiding is absolutely inevitable. Then make up your mind and coax her if you have nothing to do, old man. Everyone likes to chat with her. She likes to nag. Let her nag. Just about her son. It is right to respect mother-in-law.

My mother-in-law didn't raise you, but raised your husband. So you should understand your son's feelings for his mother, because you love your husband. You should respect his mother with him, and you have parents. Would you be happy if your husband talked back to your parents and ignored you? So smile at your mother-in-law and chat more. You are good to his mother, and he will be good to your mother. Don't be too intimate with your husband in front of your mother-in-law

I have shown this suggestion to my daughter-in-law. Although I think you are familiar with this way of communication, old people are old people after all, and they have traditional ideas. Just like in front of outsiders, being too close to your husband is disrespectful. You said, this is your house, you think.

When it comes to matters related to your husband's family, especially money, you should always make plans for your husband, but you must consider his feelings. You should be good at speaking. Don't say it directly even if you don't want to. You should reason with your husband gently and let her know that you are willing to help, but for some reason it doesn't help, and you need more comfort, so you should make a new plan.

But you can't be the owner of some money. For example, if my father-in-law is ill, even if you don't give money, others will make money everywhere to treat my father. So since you can't escape, it's better to calm down when you take the money. Show a will. Leave this to your mother-in-law, my mother-in-law will be happy, my husband will be satisfied, and I will think more about you in the future.

Let's forget it. Kindness, family care, cold face is not a good idea. Your husband is embarrassed to say that your mother-in-law still thinks you are not sensible, and you are still angry. It's not a big deal in principle. Don't haggle too much. Of course, I want to remind you that it is best not to let in your in-laws. Because many contradictions occur in small things in life. If there is no way out, you should be mentally prepared, not just from your own mood. I hope my answer can help you, and I hope you can help me forward it, like it, support me more and pay more attention to me. If you have any questions or requests, you can leave a message in the comment area, and I will reply them one by one.