Granddaughter gives the old man food to talk about.

I think it's best not to help others. It is possible that others don't like the dishes you help cook, but if you put the dishes in other people's bowls, others have to eat them, and others can eat whatever they want without your help. All you have to do is eat more vegetables and don't need to help others.

On the surface, it looks polite to pick up food, but in fact it's disgusting. Some people don't like to help others with food, and they hate that others always help themselves with food. Such people are basically these three types of people:

1, don't like people who are forced.

After all, everyone has different tastes and preferences, and what others like to eat may not be suitable for their own tastes. Therefore, whenever others help themselves or others, it is equivalent to imposing on others. Others help themselves to food. If they don't eat, they will feel embarrassed and ungrateful. If they eat, they are reluctant.

Therefore, people who don't like to be caught or caught in a meal are mostly people with personality, who don't like to be passive in Nuo Nuo and don't want to do things they don't like.

2. People who know how to take care of other people's feelings.

When you think that helping others with food is warm, polite and beneficial, you are all wet. You help others get food without restraint. After all, you just don't know how to take care of other people's feelings.

When others are full, you try your best to put it in others' bowls, and others politely refuse. You are also joking: Why do you eat so little? Don't waste any more!

Sounds like it feels terrible.

People who know how to take care of others' feelings will not make such fearless moves and will not only "think" for others from their own perspective. They know how to respect others and never impose on them.

3. A neat freak.

Everyone has his own living habits. When eating, some people think that it is a habit of not paying attention to hygiene to always help others with food. They don't want their rules to be broken, and they are very disgusted with other people's food, especially when they don't use public chopsticks.

I advise you not to think that hot air is polite. In fact, people don't like to hold each other's food at the dinner table.