My second husband told me to get out

My second husband told me to get out

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“Get out,” my husband, Lao Li, yelled at my daughter and me, “You two Get out of this house."

Okay, just get out.

I asked my daughter to go back to the house and pack everything she could take. As for myself, it doesn’t matter whether I pack my luggage or not, as long as I have a card in my hand and money in it.

This is not the first time that Lao Li has told my daughter and I to get lost.

Go away, of course I will take my daughter with me, but it is not as simple as what Lao Li said.

Lao Li and I are married for the second time, and each has a daughter to form our current family.

Lao Li’s daughter, Xiao Li, has always disliked my daughter and me since she married her father. She always stirs up troubles for no reason, causing her to talk to me.

At the beginning, I felt that it was a run-in between two families, and it would be a bit uncomfortable, so I always persuaded my daughter not to be of the same level as Xiao Li, and to give in to what she could do and what she couldn’t. Ignore her.

We are a family now. As a family, we should live in harmony and make the best of our lives.

But I found that the more my daughter gave in, the more Xiao Li pushed forward. She tries to find fault with her daughter in everything and yells at her at every turn.

As time passed, my daughter got bored and had a temper. Instead of swallowing her anger, she might as well rise up and resist.

In this way, the conflicts between my daughter and Xiao Li are increasing day by day, and the relationship between me and Lao Li is becoming more and more tense.

Home is not a place for reasoning, nor is it a place for quarrels, but even in this half-sized house, the smoke in this home has never stopped.

At first I would persuade my daughter and comfort her to stop arguing with Xiao Li.

I hope that my family will be peaceful, harmonious and happy, but the reality is always different from the dream.

If you ignore her and don't want to quarrel with her, others may not follow your wishes.

After you have reached the end of your endurance, there is no need to endure it anymore.

Xiao Li's extravagant behavior also made me understand that blindly asking my daughter to give in will only make her feel embarrassed in this family, and what's more, it may not be a good thing for her daughter or Xiao Li's growth.

I have communicated with Lao Li, hoping that he can persuade Xiao Li to stop targeting his daughter and me in everything.

He said in a nonchalant manner: "They are still children, and it is normal for them to quarrel and bicker."

Is that normal? Why didn't I see it at all?

Until one time, my daughter was bullied by Xiao Li again, and she was so angry that she fought with her.

I was not at home at the time, and I heard from my daughter that Lao Li didn’t help his relatives, only yelled at her, saying she was ignorant, and quarreled with Xiao Li all day long.

At that time, I realized that in Lao Li’s heart, the only thing he cared about was his daughter. As for my daughter, she can be beaten and scolded, but there is no way to love her.

Yes, my daughter is just my daughter, what does it have to do with him, Lao Li?

Thanks to me treating him as my husband and Xiao Li as my daughter, my daughter was wronged and I just tried to persuade her to endure it. After all, second marriage is not easy, and reorganizing a family is even more difficult.

However, it was my daughter who suffered the injustice in the end. It was me, the mother, who personally pushed her into the pit of fire and made her live such an oppressive life.

At that moment, I understood: patience is not the answer, the only way is to face it head on, and maybe there is still a glimmer of hope.

I told my daughter to try not to have any contact with Xiao Li on weekdays. Even if she deliberately seeks trouble, don’t quarrel with her. When I come back, I will give her justice.

At the same time, I also warned Lao Li that if his daughter continues to stir up trouble for no reason, I will never stand idly by.

However, he still turned a deaf ear to my words.

At that time, Xiao Li was having a video chat with her mother in the living room. Her daughter was thirsty and went to the living room to pour a glass of water. Because she accidentally appeared in the video, she lost her phone and started making a fuss.

Lao Li and I were also at home at that time.

After hearing the noise, I advised my daughter to go back to the house first and asked Xiao Li to say less.

"You have no right to tell me what to do here," Xiao Li pointed at me and said, "If it weren't for you, my father would have remarried my mother long ago, and you wouldn't have the right to make such nonsense here. ?”

“I am your elder after all.” I said, “You don’t even have the most basic respect?”

“What respect do you need?” Li sarcastically said, "My father married you, do you really think of yourself as the mistress of this family?"

"I tell you, don't even think about it." Xiao Li frowned coldly, " There is only one mistress in this family, and that is my mother.”

I never thought that Xiao Li was so young and so mean when he spoke. No wonder my daughter couldn’t bear it, and I couldn’t bear it. Xiao Li's words were also knocked out of his mind.

"I also tell you," I said a little incoherently, "In this family, the woman who is in charge now is me, not your mother."

"It's just a matter of time. "Xiao Li seemed confident, "Just wait, sooner or later my mother will come back."

"You..." At the moment when I raised my hand in anger, Lao Li grabbed me. My hand, staring at me fiercely, said: "What do you want to do?" and then shook off my hand.

"Dad," Xiao Li said to Lao Li aggrievedly, "did you see it? They usually bully me like this."

Then he started to howl at the top of his lungs. cry.

"You are full of nonsense." I shouted.

"Get out of here," Lao Li yelled at my daughter and I, "both of you, get out of this house."

Every time I meet two When it comes to children's problems, he always stands by his daughter's side and then tells me to get out.

At that time, I thought that a second marriage would not be easy, so I could bear with it. But now, I realize that what has my patience brought to me?

My daughter’s grievances, Xiao Li’s disrespect for me, and Lao Li always told us, mother and daughter, to get out.

Second marriage is indeed not easy, but why should I wrong my daughter and myself for the so-called second marriage?

"We will get out of here, no need for you to yell." After I thought about it clearly, I calmed down, "First of all, please listen to me clearly. It was your daughter who disrespected me first, and now I I want her to apologize to me, otherwise I will be slapped."

"Secondly," I automatically ignored Xiao Li's chirping, "it was you who told me to get out of this house, so I answered. Come on down, it’s time for us to talk about our divorce.”

“You…” Lao Li was speechless now, “It’s just two kids having an affair, there’s no need to take it seriously.”

It was you who told us, mother and daughter, to get out, and it was you who said there was no need to take it seriously. Do you really think that we are easy to bully, that you can knead us if you want, and round us if you want to?

There is a limit to tolerance, not to mention that I don’t want to endure it now.

After seeing my daughter packing her luggage, I said categorically to Lao Li: "I don't need the house," and I didn't buy it anyway. "I want half of the deposit."

Seeing that we, mother and daughter, were about to leave, Lao Li grabbed me instead, said nice things to me, and asked me to calm down. He said that when Xiao Li calmed down, he would make her apologize to me, and he also apologized to me. He said that he was impulsive and said the wrong thing, and asked me to give him another chance.

“Let’s forget it,” I reminded him, “Didn’t your daughter just say that it was me who blocked your remarriage with your ex-wife, so I’d better be wise and make room for your ex-wife. ."

After that, I took my daughter and left without looking back.

I also thought that if I got divorced after my second marriage, I might be embarrassed, so I tried hard to maintain the family and hoped that Xiao Li and my daughter could live in harmony.

But it wasn’t until this moment that I understood that there are some people who you can’t warm up to no matter how hard you cover them, and some relationships can’t be eased just by trying to maintain them.

We are not a family. No matter how hard we try, no matter how tolerant we are, we cannot stay together.

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