Narrow talk on the road

1, life should not be too full and crowded. No matter what you do, you should leave some space for yourself, so that you can turn around calmly. Leave some benefits for others, leave some way for others to walk, and leave some time for yourself to think. Remember to leave room for life at all times, and don't be aggressive, decadent, nervous, lax, extreme and persistent. Not complacent when you get it, not depressed when you lose it, and calm between gains and losses.

2, life, there is no eternal pain, no matter how deep the pain, the wound will always heal when cutting. There is no hurdle in life. You can't sit next to an obstacle and wait for it to disappear. You can only try to cross it. Life, without eternal feelings and ending feelings, always ends; People who can't get it will always forget it.

3. Don't continue if the tea is cold, and it is not the original taste; People go, don't stay, and staying is not the original feeling; If the feeling is gone, don't relive it. If you relive it again, it will not be the original mood. Slowly it will be far away, and gradually it will be weak. When you have it, cherish it, leave it and bless it silently. No one should accompany you to the end of your life journey.

The biggest difficulty for people is to know themselves, and the easiest thing is to know themselves. Many times, we don't recognize ourselves, just because we put ourselves in the wrong position and give ourselves an illusion. Therefore, I am not afraid of the bumpy road ahead, and I am afraid that I will go in the wrong direction from the beginning.

5, no matter how poor, don't owe money to disappear; No matter how difficult it is, don't break your word. Be upright and do things clearly. Never lose others' trust in you, because others' trust in you is the value of your existence in others' minds. Life is a long road, so don't narrow it yourself. It's done! Everything is here! Never overdraw the trust of people around you!

6, people should not squander three things: physical money and love, you want to squander, but it is not worth the candle; People can't keep three things: life and love. You want to keep them, but they are drifting away. There are three things that people should not remember: disaster, death and love. You want to remember, but you are in pain.

7, don't be too hard on yourself, some people are not worthy of your heart; Some things don't need to be engraved in memory all the time. Don't wait until there is nothing you can do, and then choose to let nature take its course; Don't be forced to be happy because you have nothing to hide There are some people and things that you have to pass through. It doesn't matter whether they are good or bad, whether they are successful or not, whether they are together or not, whether they love or hate. They just help you taste all the flavors of life, understand everything in the world, and look down on the changes in the world.

8. If a person thinks too highly of himself, he will be looked down upon by others; A person with low self-esteem will be respected by others. Deliberately raising yourself is a kind of guilty conscience, and deliberately belittling yourself will also be affected. A peaceful look, a sincere attitude and a generous attitude that doesn't care whether others think it is noble or not are the guarantee of a peaceful life. -Yu

9, don't live too tired, don't be too busy; Don't think you are unlucky pessimistically. In fact, there are many people who are more unfortunate than you. Don't be optimistic that you are great, in fact, you are just a drop in the ocean. Learn to adapt and make your environment bright; Learn to adjust, so that your mood is no longer sad; Learn to be tolerant and let your life be trouble-free; Learn to give and make your life full of sunshine.

10, we often hear a saying in our lives, called believe in yourself. That is to believe that you can support and heal in the face of suffering, instead of blindly following your own willfulness and stubbornness. When you understand the imperfection of life and forgive others more or less mistakes, and these changes are quietly completed in your inner world, you truly understand life.

1 1. Time flies. The first half of life has passed, and the second half continues. We are not children anymore. We can gradually understand some truth. Don't fight for things that don't belong to us. Don't stay. We would rather be confused than smart and work hard than covet too much. Please live the rest of your life, look down on sadness, look down on money, stop playing tricks, rob others of their interests, be kind and tolerant, as long as you are healthy, it is better than money and wealth.

12, we have experienced storms and suffered blows, and gradually we have become less optimistic. The first half, such as the lost scenery, and the second half, is the distance under your feet. Don't be sad to lose it. You should cherish what you have. Some things, some people, are not worth it, so you give up. There is no need to pester yourself.

13, with money, others are waiting for you to speak, but without money, you have no confidence to speak, and you are not qualified to speak. With money, everything is reasonable, without money, everything is in vain.

14, get along with people, be sincere; Be tolerant of misunderstandings with others. Look down on dust; Shallow view on interpersonal relationship; Look down on gains and losses; Look on the bright side. Some things, let go gently, are not necessarily difficult. Some people, with deep memories, are not necessarily unhappy. Some pain, light is refreshing, not necessarily experienced. Rough roads give people a warm side; Life is a storm, give yourself a smile. Keep happiness in your heart, melt quietly and spread slowly!

15, everyone's road, everyone is walking, and bumps are inevitable; There is nothing wrong with the love in the world and the knot in the world, and understanding can be inclusive; Tolerance brings peace; Watch it, you can put it down; See through, you can be indifferent.

16, don't be expensive, be content with happiness, live a long life without illness, be content with happiness, and be rigid without desire. Life is only thirty thousand days. Come naked, go naked, you can't take things outside, and you can't take them when you die. No matter how big the house is, it is also a temporary residence. Only the Xiao Mu Box is the permanent home.

17, most of the time, the more you value something, the less you can get it; The more you care about feelings, the more you can't catch them. Some people can only wash their eyes completely when they are deeply hurt; Some feelings, only when the song is over, can you understand what fate is. Care too much about others, think about whether others care about you; Pay too much attention to feelings and ask if it is worth cherishing.

Peace is happiness. No matter how rich and expensive you are, everything is just a dream in the face of impermanence. Maybe you long for the ups and downs of life and have experienced many hardships, but what you long for is the quiet years and the stability of the world. How many blessings you have to bear, and don't have too many wild dreams in life. Even if you are lucky, it will be more dangerous. Don't do evil, do good, and the best day is just peace of mind.

19, life often has shortcomings, and we have come all the way from the gap between perfection and shortcomings. In fact, perfection is just a beautiful ideal, and regret is a normal state in reality. Defect is beauty with pain, which makes us feel pain and happiness all the time. It is with countless brave leaps from defects to perfection that we have endless power to advance, and our life will be colorful and more meaningful.