Others just talk casually, but you take it seriously

Is there such a person around you? I am always complaining to others, but I am secretly working hard. As the saying goes: Others just talk casually, but you take it seriously.

Colleague A is a young and promising girl. It is said that she came to the international school where we are now as a teacher of Chinese as a foreign language just after graduation. It's a bit embarrassing to say that I am one year older than her, but I have one full year less working experience than her.

When I first came here, I was assigned to the same dormitory as her. There was an older sister in the same dormitory. Colleague A was so warm and sophisticated that I couldn't believe that this girl who was much taller than me was actually one year younger than me.

As a newbie, I came to work here with great expectations. However, on the first night I lived in the dormitory, I heard a lot of negative information, including that the wages here are extremely low, the work is extremely tiring, and the work is not good. Treat teachers as human beings and other such words. When I first heard this, I always didn't care. Anyway, I didn't come here to work because of the salary. I came here for my dream of teaching Chinese as a foreign language. There is no way I won't be tired while pursuing my dream. So I don't really care.

Later I discovered that although colleague A always said it was not good here, she worked more seriously than anyone else and she was extremely self-disciplined.

Every night, colleague A will exercise for half an hour after finishing the work at hand, and never stops. He even does some stretching during his aunt's period. Of course, they still complain to me from time to time that this school is so shameless. They work more than 12 hours a day, but the salary is so low, and there are no bonuses, no benefits, etc. And every time I hear it, I laugh it off.

During this summer camp, due to some emergencies, my colleague A and I stayed awake for two consecutive days because we had to attend classes normally during the day and needed to solve this difficult situation at night. It can be said that For two whole days, I didn't rest for more than an hour, and my whole body became pale. After lasting for nearly a week, the whole thing finally came to a complete end. During this period, Colleague A’s essential homework was to complain to me about the school’s leadership and the school’s unreasonable salary whenever he had time. To be honest, our school may not be as perfect as imagined. Whenever something goes wrong, the teacher is solely responsible. In addition, the workload of teachers is much higher than that of other schools, but there is no honor that teachers should enjoy. Because our teaching objects are foreigners, they don’t care about the dignity of teachers. In their eyes, , teachers just take money to do things.

In this way, after hearing too much negative information, I often doubt my original choice. So much so that I naturally started complaining about it with colleague A without any sense of guilt. I even kept thinking about whether I should change my job.

Until this morning, colleague A once again complained to me about lack of sleep every day. He had to get up at 5:40 in the morning. I'm old, and I stood for too long yesterday and my lumbar spine is a little bad. But this time, after listening to it, my mind suddenly went crazy. Instead of following the train of thought of her complaints, I suddenly realized that although she complained every day, she did not drop any of her work, and she completed it well. , when I realized this, I felt frightened.

In our lives, there are all kinds of people. People who always convey negative energy to others but work very hard themselves can easily lead others astray inadvertently. Their unintentional complaints may cause some trouble to some people who don't know much about it, and even cause them to lose themselves and get stuck in it, but they have no impact on themselves and continue to work hard every day to make themselves better and better. Okay, and there was only one person who was stupid from beginning to end.

It can be seen that sometimes, others just talk casually, but you take it seriously!