My neighbor's children always come to my house to ask for something to eat. What should I do?

Tell me about my experience! He has a colleague's child who is good friends with my daughter and often comes to my house to play. Once on my birthday, she was still playing at my house! Her parents didn't know my birthday, so they left their children at my house. We usually leave our children at each other's house and pick them up in the afternoon. At noon that day, we went to the restaurant for dinner. When we ordered, my husband said it was your birthday. I'll take the menu to order. Our two children waited quietly. She looked at the menu in my hand and said "I want to eat this" and "order this". I looked at the food she said, which really wasn't what I wanted. I just "Let's not order that". After a while, the waiter came over and asked if he needed a drink. My family and I just looked at me expectantly. The little girl started, and I ordered "grape juice". I said we don't drink. One is that it is too cold, and the other is that I don't want them to drink. Then the child shouted "I want to drink, I want to drink". Then my husband said, I have a drink. Just one bottle. When I got back, my husband said that my colleagues were a little too fond of children. I said, in fact, you can tell her no, and then he said that I was afraid of making other people's children cry, which is not good. I said I don't think so. Children are too young to know how to be self-disciplined when going to other people's homes like adults. She only speaks her mind. It is not good for her and unfair to her children to treat her as a princess if she is satisfied blindly. When she comes to your home and her parents are away, you should take on the responsibility of parents for the time being and tell her what she can and can't do. This should also be what her parents want. Back to your question, the neighbor's child came to your house to look for food, obviously because your family's situation allowed him to do so. He won't consider your situation or the trouble it will bring you, because he is not that old. When you say that the boss is fine, it means that the boss already knows this, or at least knows to restrain himself in other people's homes. For the second child, you can clearly tell him, "You can't go through other people's cabinets. It's impolite." Then put away what you don't want him to eat and try not to let him see it. If you see it, you can also say, "My sister brought it back for my brother to drink. You can drink the one your sister brought back. " We often find it difficult for children who refuse to talk but put themselves in others' shoes to talk. If your child misbehaves in other people's homes, do you want others to stop him and tell him the truth, or just satisfy him? Once you refuse his unreasonable demands or stop his improper practices, you will find that it doesn't really matter. The children are still happy to play in your house and become sensible. More importantly, your own children will not doubt their position in your heart because of these things.