How to write a message for a rebellious son?

My dear son:

This is the first time that my parents have written to you, and the first time that they have told you what is in our hearts. This may be the last time that my father and I will We wrote to you together. Because of your ignorance in the past year and a half, we have postponed our quarrel in advance. We all blame each other, and what we are complaining about you is all caused by our other party's miseducation. Therefore, please read this letter carefully. I believe this will be an unforgettable memory in your life. As I write this, my mind is filled with the image of you being naughty and sensible when you were a child. Do you still remember the 300 yuan we gave you as a reward when you took second place in the county mathematics competition for the first time? At that time, because Dad is in poor health. On his birthday, you secretly used the money to buy supplements for him. I remember that we almost beat you because of a misunderstanding, because at that time our family's life was more difficult because of my father's health. Later, when I learned that you were frugal and used the reward we gave you to buy a repeater, my father and I both cried that night. We all told each other that our son is so outstanding and sensible, no matter how hard and tiring it is, it is all worth it to us. From elementary school to the second grade of junior high school, our family lived happily, loving each other. But since you were in the third grade of junior high school, I don’t know when you started to compare yourself. You began to despise your own birth, envied your classmates’ lavishness, and started to pay attention to brand names in your clothes. Surfing the Internet, staying up late at night, contradicting us... In just two months, the good grades, being sensible and obedient to you seemed to be gone forever. Son, do you know? That day you pointed at us and said that we had ruined you, and you would let us reap the consequences. Hearing this, I was so angry that I almost fainted. Watching your walking back gradually fade into the distance, I was desperate at that time. I slumped down alone on the ground. Only then did I realize how failed we were as parents. I know you hate it when we compare you with the children of our colleagues in front of you. Indeed, there is really no comparison. They are them and we are us. But as parents, we, like parents all over the world, want our children to do well. Even if they cannot become talents, becoming adults is the minimum requirement.

Actually, your parents don’t blame you. Everyone will go through this special period of adolescence. We understand you and your desire for freedom in the adult world. But son, you are still young after all, and your ability to judge things is limited after all. Just like my 17-year-old mother, I lost your grandfather forever because of my selfishness and thinking about problems in my own world. Since then, I have truly understood what it means to cherish. Son, do you know that since your grandpa passed away, every Qingming Festival, I will write a letter to your grandpa and burn it to her, telling him my progress that year and setting my goals for the next year. Tomorrow is the Qingming Festival. In this letter, I reviewed my mistakes in your education with my grandfather. I have too high demands on you and ignore your other feelings. This is my parents' fault and we must correct it. But as for the relationship between parents, you also understand, and you understand mom when you are at home, so we, mother and son, will live together for a longer time in the future. I have tried hard, but you know how your father is, so I decided not to force it. As long as you agree, we will do what your father asks.

I call the teachers at the school every day, and I feel that the teachers are very responsible and care about you. The teacher said that although you don't say much, your actions prove everything. Son, I believe in you, let’s work hard together, okay?

I will always love your mother!

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