Because of an emotional dispute, the man ignited the gas and killed two people. How do women save themselves in marriage?

In a news, we saw that because of emotional problems, the man lit the gas, resulting in the death of two people on the spot. This incident caused us to think. Many people think that women should protect themselves in marriage. There may be emotional problems in many families, but in these problems, women are generally hurt, so how should women protect themselves in marriage? This is worth thinking about.

First, independence.

I think it is very important for women to be independent in marriage. Many women think they will depend on their husbands after marriage. Some people don't go out to make money. They think it's good to have a husband, but I think independence in marriage is very important. Women should have their own careers. If women don't have their own careers, men may feel superior. He thinks he is the pillar of the family, which will be bad for his wife. Some men feel that they earn money to support their families, and women should do housework and take care of their children at home. I think this is very incorrect. If there is any problem, the man thinks he is superior and will punch and kick the woman, so the woman must have her own career and not be influenced by the man.

Second, reject pua.

Many people should have heard a word called pua, which means that you may meet someone when you are in love and be good to you. You think he fits you very well, so you will be willing to be with him, but after a long time, he will control you and your thoughts will be decided by him, so if you make any mistakes, he will brainwash you and make you feel. Many women have met such a love rat. After marrying such a scum man, their marriage was very unhappy, and many women lost their lives because they met such a love rat. Therefore, when looking for a husband, women must keep their eyes open and refuse pua. Have your own independent thoughts and don't rely on men.

Third, protect yourself.

Many women's marriages may be unhealthy, but they always choose to continue living with men for some reasons. Many families are unhappy, but for the sake of children, women will put up with it, but I think if women are unhappy in marriage, they must speak out bravely and resist, and they must not be wronged because of some other factors, because many women have suffered a lot in marriage, and may suffer from domestic violence and pua. I think women have their own independent personality and should not rely on men, and men have no reason to commit domestic violence against girls. If domestic violence can be sentenced, I will support it very much, because many women can't protect themselves in marriage, so women must keep their eyes open and find a reliable man when looking for a husband.