A 7-year-old child dawdled and cried as he spoke. How to guide him?

1. Cultivate children's self-care ability from small things.

If the baby is still in the development stage of self-care ability, the mother should not only give the baby enough patience, but also cultivate the baby's self-care ability bit by bit from trivial matters. For example, teach children how to dress, wash clothes, pack toys, etc., so that babies can master them first and then master them. In addition, parents can also teach their children how to use the order of things to improve efficiency and arrange time.

2. Let go appropriately. Don't help children arrange things just because they are in a hurry.

As soon as the child stays, the mother can't wait to do it for him. This practice must change. Please give your child some patience even if he is slow to respond and doesn't behave well. Let him try to do it himself, and the child will only be more dull. In addition, some parents don't even give their children the chance to come by themselves, making them more dependent on them, unwilling to do things by themselves, and regard procrastination as an "escape from labor".

3. Actively cultivate children's concept of time

If children haven't formed the concept of time, don't use it as an excuse. Parents should actively cultivate their children's sense of time. There are many ways to cultivate children's concept of time. Play a game with your child for one minute, let the child participate and experience happiness. If the child doesn't finish it within the stipulated time, he can't go on. This small "punishment" can make children feel a sense of urgency.

4. Work regularly and make a timetable together.

When do you eat, play games, study and sleep? Let's make a daily schedule with the children. It's best to write this timetable on paper with your children, and then draw some decorations and stick them in a conspicuous position. This ritual method can make children feel that punctuality is very important, and it becomes very important to do things on time. The problem of procrastination is naturally eliminated.

Baby with procrastination at home. If parents are impatient, then "war" will continue to break out every day. Parents keep urging and nagging, children swallow slowly, don't be impatient, and there is constant friction between parents and children. This phenomenon is common in many families. In fact, children's procrastination should also find out the reasons. Only by finding the reason can they solve the problem concretely.