Is habit a terrible thing?

Because of habit, you will take it for granted.

Because of habit, no one thinks about what it would be like to lose it.

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Like me, if a girl chats with me every day, says good morning and good night to me every day, lets me eat on time, lets me go to bed early, and tells me interesting things about her every day.

In the long run, I will really get used to having her company every day. If one day, she stops looking for me, my heart will itch like a cat scratch, and there will never be peace.

I will always look at my mobile phone and feel that I have a disease of "My WeChat is ringing".

I really want to take the initiative to find each other, but I can't let go of my face.

I will go to the circle of friends to check her past dynamics and talk about comfort.

I feel like I like each other.

You said that if you don't care, I can't figure out why you want to talk to her every day.

So tell me exactly, what is habit and what is like?

Habit is that you will get along with someone you don't hate, and you will accompany him every day. Over time, it becomes a habit.

The person who has been with you disappears. At this time, you will suddenly feel very lonely, and there is nothing missing around you. It turns out that during these times, your life is full of each other's shadows, and you are used to his existence.

But you know that you have no feelings for him, and you can gradually overcome the discomfort caused by this habit.

Like is when he really disappears from your world, you can't help but want to find him and feel that you can't live without him.

You will get used to it because of habit, and you will get used to it because you like it.

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Before I left him, I clearly realized that we were not as passionate as before.

Even if I see each other's tears, I can't spark in my heart. The disappearance of novelty and more and more frequent quarrels made our love disappear.

However, at the moment when I put forward the separation, a strong sense of disappointment and loss that I can no longer grasp wrapped me up strongly.

Those who beat me hard in the past, I look at the people I know most, and I can't speak anymore.

It seems that at this moment I can't tell if I still love him.

I know that once we are separated, it may be a lifetime. If we miss it, we may really miss it.

But I also know that continuing to entangle will only increase the pain.

So we still separated.

After separation, a strong sense of loneliness strikes, and it seems that no one can avoid the stamina of lovelorn.

A cell phone that never rings again, a room in space at night, and a sense of loss that no one shares when encountering happy things. Even if a bunch of people are crazy together, it seems that something is missing. I habitually do what I did to you again.

Every little thing in life reminds me how much time you have left.

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When parting comes, you lose not a person, but a spiritual pillar.

This is why most people feel so painful after breaking up. In the face of losing this thing, no matter what is lost, people can't accept it in an instant.

There is one more person around me, and I will be particularly unaccustomed at first, which leads to that I can't fully accept this person coming into my life.

But once you come into my life, someone will be caring and attentive to you every day, talking and laughing with you, even if it is a quarrel.

Suddenly one day this person is gone, and you will feel that there is something missing in your life, so you will be particularly sad.

This is why, after others wronged you, you still have fantasies in your heart. She is still the one you are used to, and the other person can come back to you.

Therefore, love can't just be moved and suddenly be alone. Habit is more terrible than deep love.

But ah, "the longest road has an end, and the darkest night will usher in the morning."

It's still on ahead!