Tell me how you balance love and work.

I think love and work are both part of my life. When looking for a love object, I will see if the other person's view of things is consistent with mine. Because work is to do things well, but a beautiful love needs two people to run together, so we will ask each other's views on our work when we work hard.

I don't like the idea of being a stay-at-home wife, because each of us has our own life circle, and there is no need to give up our jobs to cater to each other. Work is not only our economic source, but also our interpersonal circle. Take my friend as an example. I have an excellent friend. When I met her, she was already the man of the hour in our school. Later, we joined a well-paid company to work together. The company benefits well, but there are many things and the work is very busy.

But she has a good balance between work and love. She believes that hard work can realize self-worth, and serious love is the interest in life. Moreover, a good love doesn't have to be bored with each other every day, so as to keep a proper sense of distance and space and keep the love between two people fresh.

After working for about two years, she completed the big life plans such as getting married and having children. After having children, her husband wanted her to be a full-time wife, but she refused. She said that what men like most now is that they are still young, and when they really stay at home, they will have no position at home. So she chose to continue working. After communicating with her husband, she usually asked her mother-in-law to see the children. Of course, even if she has children now, she still attaches great importance to the sense of ceremony in love, and the surprise brought by small gifts will also alleviate her husband's complaints about work.