The emotional situation of older single women: welcome to cheat and refuse to cheat. What do you think?

Some people would rather love an excellent man who is not good to themselves than accept a mediocre man who really pays for himself. Therefore, although she knows that she has been cheated, she is still willing to deceive herself and enjoy it.

Mei Zi is such a woman. At the age of 38, she has a boyfriend who is hot and cold to her. To be exact, this man should be her lover. This man has a family, but he says he loves Mei Zi, but all he says to Xiaomei is empty promises. This man promised to invest in Mei Zi's studio, but he has been talking for half a year and has not seen anything. Mei Zi said that she was optimistic about a good store and wanted to pay a down payment, so the man promised to help her collect money, but that was just talk. Mei Zi knows that she is not a good person, if not two people on the ideological level.

But Mei Zi knew that if she separated from him, she might never find a more suitable person. Compared with those vulgar people, she is more willing to get along with this decent man, although she knows that someone will stand on the moral high ground and point at her.

The one I met may not love her at all. Mei Zi is his extramarital prey, just like dessert, but what he really needs is not Mei Zi. So, he won't pay attention. Mei Zi would rather be cheated by him. At least until someone who really suits him appears, she will continue to maintain this relationship with him.

Perhaps this is Mei Zi's helplessness. For a 38-year-old woman, the golden age has passed, and her skin and energy have lost their competitive advantage. But her mood is still the same as when she was young, that is, she refused to lower her standards, refused to wronged herself to marry a mediocre person, and lived an ordinary and finely divided life.

However, Mei Zi has a principle that no matter how pitiful this person cries, Mei Zi will not be soft-hearted. She secretly told herself in her heart that sympathy for others was cruel to herself. She can be generous physically, but she is extremely stingy with money. Maybe I met such a cheeky man. She lost her wife and soldiers when she was young. When Mei Zi woke up, she realized how ridiculous and stupid a woman who was carried away by love was.

But now she has learned to be cruel. Although she loves him in her heart, she is cautious about money. Every time she has to weigh who pays more and who pays less. Maybe it's not love, just companionship. This is Mei Zi's imaginary soul mate. As for sincerity, Mei Zi knows that men and women of this age will express their sincerity to each other. Maybe, some people already have it. Although there is such a false man to accompany, it is much better than loneliness and helplessness.

Who would want their love to be like this if they were not powerless to their feelings? Every woman is eager to have a man who can shelter from the wind and rain, but what is the probability of such a man appearing around? Maybe there is no such right person and expectation in this world.

Old women like Mei Zi are emotionally empty. Sometimes they prefer to live a fireworks life with a man who really loves them. Even if you quarrel occasionally, or get angry because of trivial things, these have become extravagant hopes. Whether waiting for the right person to appear or compromising with reality, women have their own ideas in their hearts.

The difference between Maggie and Mei Zi is that she is more powerful economically. However, the more such a woman, the less dependent on men. Women are economically independent and naturally powerful. She can solve it without a man's help, but emotionally, she is no different from other women.

Maggie, with a higher education, naturally despises those vulgar men who have only money and no taste. The person she wants to marry should be everything above her, and she has the right to choose. After all, she doesn't have to consider practical material problems.

A friend's date ended in tears, because she found that all men were well disguised at first, but only when they made friends did they know that they were only after Maggie's money. For Maggie, who is sensitive by nature, the most annoying thing is that men ask her for money. She called the man she was with for money a "liar", and Maggie could tolerate cheating.

A friend's date ended in tears, because she found that all men were well disguised at first, but only when they made friends did they know that they were only after Maggie's money. For Maggie, who is sensitive by nature, the most annoying thing is that men ask her for money. She called the man she was with for money a "liar", and Maggie could tolerate cheating.

The writer Yi Shu once said that without a lot of love, there must be a lot of money. If a woman is emotionally empty and insecure, then what she believes most is money. Some men will test women with money. And a man's attitude in front of money can reveal whether his feelings are true or not. Men who try to cheat women out of money can be directly classified as love rat. How can an older woman who has experienced wind and rain let herself stumble over such a thing? They will never.